I send text messages to my BH as often as I can. It's one of my ways of assuring him that I miss him, want him, need him and love him.
I don't really get responses from him everytime. He only replies to messages pertaining to the kids.
I wonder when is too much?
Has he asked you to limit contact?
If not I would say continue to offer love and reassurance even if he doesn't respond.
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Talk to BS, ask him what he needs from you each day to feel safe. And don't be discouraged if he doesn't text back. It may be very hard and painful for him to have to respond.
I will admit that at first her not responding was very difficult but it gets easier with time. I just keep telling myself how hurt she must be if she can't even respond. Unfortunately I get the same response when I try to talk to her in person about it. The only time we have an actual two way conversation about our situation is when she brings it up first which is almost never. VERY FRUSTRATING! But I've come to terms with it. I have to accept it and just be here and be ready in those times when she is ready to talk.
Hang in there.