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Topic: Remebering birthdays

Pippy
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Posted: 10:41 AM, December 20th (Friday), 2013

EX and I have been D and NC for 7 years which is fine. His birthday is coming up and I remember it (silently) every year. When my birthday comes, I KNOW he won't, even in a passing moment, remember it. And that sums up our 30 year marriage in a nutshell.

[This message edited by Pippy at 10:45 AM, December 20th (Friday)]

I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.

Posts: 9588 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies

sparkysable
♀ 3703
Member # 3703

Posted: 10:46 AM, December 20th (Friday), 2013

Mine sent me a "happy birthday" text last year.

Really? You killed my cat, I threw you out in a glory of changed locks and storage units. Are we really on "happy birthday" terms?

D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

Posts: 3750 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY

Pippy
♀ 16482
Member # 16482

Posted: 11:53 AM, December 20th (Friday), 2013

sparkysable, I sure can understand why "Happy Birthday" is that last thing you want to hear from that jerk. I wonder what color the sky is in his world.

I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.

Posts: 9588 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies

pregnantandsad
♀ 40141
Member # 40141

Posted: 2:27 PM, December 20th (Friday), 2013

I'm sorry Pippy. My birthday is 6 months away but I don't expect it to even cross his mind when the day comes. And you are right, it does sum it up. These are selfish, self-absorbed people

M 7 years, together for 12
2 kids- DD4 and a newborn
D-Day 7/2013 he didn't want R and moved in with OW
Filed for D, almost done!

Posts: 155 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California

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