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User Topic: Celebrating 1700 Days Sobriety
looking forward
♀ 25238
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Happy  Posted: 10:59 AM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's
146,926,800 heartbeats!


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2860 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
scaredyKat
♀ 25560
Member # 25560
Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful!


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3854 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
Kodi
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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!!

Posts: 1367 | Registered: Sep 2007
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! That is something to be very proud of. Lovely picture, too. Very happy for you, you are strong and brave. Woot woot!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 10082 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! Congrats


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2819 | Registered: Jan 2010
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!! That is awesome!!!

Posts: 36763 | Registered: Mar 2011
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!! Keep being the hope!!!


BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2691 | Registered: Aug 2012
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you!!! Congratulations!!!!


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3260 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
PurpleBirch
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Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great! Congratulations


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner


Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! HUGE accomplishment!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2576 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for sharing. Congratulations!


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10744 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic!!! That is quite an accomplishment :-)

Posts: 1437 | Registered: Jan 2010
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!!!

Way to go!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 53299 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..congrats...

I'd post that b/w Orson Wells clapping sequence if I knew how!

..where's Hufi Pufi when you need him??

smy

[This message edited by somanyyears at 8:21 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)]


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4134 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You rock!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7508 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!! You should be very proud of yourself.....HUGS


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4846 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!!!!

I remember when 5 days seemed impossible,and then somehow I made 5 years. What????

Congratulations. Keep it up.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 18 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2933 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
cinnamongurl
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Default  Posted: 1:03 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic! Congrats!!


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. Many ddays, last one late 8/12 "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos



Posts: 514 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 1:13 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15444 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
spond
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Default  Posted: 6:15 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's Awesome News!!! Keep it up!


BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling

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