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User Topic: Stage 4 Cancer - Need Mojo Please!
PanicAttack53
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Member # 34195
Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi All!

It's been a long time (August) since my last post on SI. My divorce was final on 10/1 and I've been living life large since then.

My reason for posting today is that I was just diagnosed with a very deep stage 4 malignant melanoma. I'm hoping like hell it's localized as the recovery rate is 80% or better. If it's spread to my lymph nodes however, that number reduces to about 17%.

I'm going in for a Pet scan today @1:30pm est and should know more about where I'm at with this hopefully late today or early tomorrow. What I'm asking for here is good thoughts, Mojo, prayer... whatever you can see fit to send my way. I'm not trying to be negative, but I just have a sick feeling I'm gonna need all the help I can get on this.

Thanks in advance and Happy Holidays to all here at SI!!!!


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 926 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
gonnabe2016
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Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Major mojo coming your way, PA5.
(p.s.....good to *see* you!)


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8188 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
gahurts
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Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers sent. Try to enjoy the holidays.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3475 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PA))))

Mojo, and prayers coming your way.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8798 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you everything I've got, honey. ((((((((PA53)))))))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26209 | Registered: Aug 2011
PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Gonna! Good to see you too. I'm a little screwed up in the head right now due to this physical crap I have going on but I *promise* I'll PM you soon to catch up.

ETA: Thanks everyone else too!

[This message edited by PanicAttack53 at 10:19 AM, December 23rd (Monday)]


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 926 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
confused615
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you, PA.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7916 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah confused,

Thanks for that and I'm so, so sorry about your mom. Please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers too.


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 926 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending lots of healing prayers, mojo and good luck your way hun!

(((Panic)))


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 13841 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healing prayers and mojo coming your way. Best of luck to you.

((((PA))))


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


Posts: 1793 | Registered: Feb 2009
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo and good thoughts coming your way!!

(((((PA)))))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4745 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Tred
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PA,

Sending everything I have your way. Hope you have a happy holiday season mate. Please keep us updated!


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4091 | Registered: Dec 2011
lostworld
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you a PM, and you are of course in my prayers.


Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married 30 yrs. w/ 2 grown kids
Dday 1: Very early 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
R'd
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.

Posts: 820 | Registered: Apr 2008
Take2
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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers and positive believing that those lymph nodes are clean and clear! Peace, Strength and Courage! ((PA!))


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4167 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers & good thoughts coming your way!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10038 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Covering you in prayer, PA.

Sending thoughts for strength and peace your way!


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21104 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
cayc
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((panicattack))) Sending good thoughts and hope your way.


"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott

Posts: 3158 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
windows
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers are coming your way...

Posts: 400 | Registered: Mar 2007
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Count me in, PA53. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this, too.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10582 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
hexed
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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lots and lots of prayers and good mojo!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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