Just a Xmas wish from exWSO and would like to know how you are, 3 years after we split up! WTF?? I have since moved on and feel very good about my life. I love my life! But the wound will always be there I don't like him reopening it!
I left him and he ran back to OW, as far as I know they are still together. It is true that he has always tried to contact me, but I never answered. Though after a year and a half of no news from him, I thought he had got the message! Looks like I am not that lucky 
I may be at fault, I have had contact with his family in 3 occasions since break up. Last time was this summer. But they were always nice to me and his dad and grandma are ill, so I just wanted to see how they were. They are always very pleased to hear from me. I would like to have more contact with them, but I have tried to keep it very occasional to not create confusion. I have no intention of interfering in exWSO and OW´s relationship, nor use ex-inlaws as a way back to exWSO.
I did think this could happen, but thought he had got the message after absolutely no answer nor contact from me. But doesn´t look that way 
I just don't understand that after his cruel actions and words, he thinks I may want to keep in contact. And what the hell I thought I was a horrible individual and he was practically forced to have an affair, so why does he want to keep in contact with me??
I suppose this means I can no longer contact his family because he doesn't get the message.
