OMFG. She's toxic to me...just toxic...clueless, delusional, self serving and toxic...
My worry now is that she will inform XH about her conversation with me...encourage him to get back in contact with me...and the thought of that makes me just cringe. He lives in another city now, I suppose he may come back for Christmas and I just hope he is smart enough to stay out of my way! I'll be a lot less "pleasant" to him if I see him...
shit, shit, shit
This post was like a huge F*&king reality check for me and how I would TRULY feel if my daughter's sperm donor's mother ACTUALLY attempted to contact me to "make nice" as you said before she dies.....I know it wouldn't be genuine....I know it would only be a bunch of toxic BS....and I Know it would open the flood gates for sperm donor to try to weasel his long leg into the door of my life again....in which case I might have to amputate it at the knee....slam the door shut and weld it for GOOD!
I'm suddenly grateful that they have stayed true to their hateful troll forms and have stayed away from my daughter and I. We have been so much better off without their additional BS making our lives more difficult.
Please please.....stay away from them. If she tries to make contact again...or shows up at your door....either A. don't answer... B. Call the police and threaten a restraining order....or C. Tell her directly to leave you alone and that you have moved on with your life and do not want to have anything to do with them anymore! And, if HE tries to contact you....keep up NC at all costs UNLESS he tries in person....and then refer to the above multiple choice options!!!!
NC NC NC!!!! I must remind myself of this every time I have a weak moment and feel sorry for his dying (hateful cruel and horrible) mother!! Her condition is bad....but I think her horrible son who she has enabled for 38 years has finally worn her down so much emotionally that it has taken a toll on her health and has caused this ailment on her.... for he will surely waste away when she dies....as she was his "life crutch" if you will.
((BIGHUGZ)) Run like hell....and change the locks on your doors..... seriously... NC NC NC! "Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12