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phoenixrise posted 12/24/2013 01:45 AM

4 months does he or she deal with it? Thought I was done with that...tried to hold back the tears but it kills me thinking about how he shared the same intimate moments with the OW. The messed up thing I am afraid of scarring him off if I do it too much I can't imagine it gives him hope or is a turn on...I even apologized like an idiot then later regretted apologizing I have every right not to repress my hurt...I wonder how long this crying after the sex thing will last...I am afraid there will come a time when he gets tired of my hurt why am I so willing to walk on eggshells for this man after he cared so little...sometimes I don't respect myself for that. I hate when he says "what's wrong?" Umm duh buddy...maybe because you had your Wang where it didn't belong 4 months ago...why can they be so oblivious to the emotional damage they've caused it's crazy to me...can a person really be that amazingly ignorant!

conflicted27 posted 12/24/2013 02:13 AM

I completely understand what you are saying! You're further along than I am (I'm only 2 months from DDay). It definitely helps me to see that I'm not the only one who has crazy emotional swings when it comes to intimacy and that nagging thought of AP creeps into the middle of it - and I don't get the feeling that they're going away anytime soon. Thank you for sharing!

Ostrich80 posted 12/24/2013 03:38 AM

It's so sad that what you need in times of sadness, intimacy, being close, sex, the thing that also triggers you. It's just such bullshit that something you love now has bad images attached. I think it was sister milkshake that said she imagined ow in the corner weeping while watching her reclaim her man. Something to that affect anyway...might work for you.

phoenixrise posted 12/24/2013 04:05 AM

Oh that's a good one! I like it...nice imagery...have to use that one for a mind movie brings me satisfaction to know that she is hurting too...hope as much as me if not more as sick as it sounds and that's being way too nice

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