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 imaf (original poster member #30916) posted at 8:39 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

Just wandering is this possible??

Left him because I didn´t like his other girlfriend.

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nomistakeaboutit ( member #36857) posted at 10:22 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

I'm sure it's possible, but......with friends like this....

So I searched through all his personal affairs and found out he had been cheating all along. I had no strength, I was a walking zombie, didn't eat, didn't sleep.

...who needs enemies?

Be smart. Stay away from this man who has betrayed you many times. You're free of him now. He's no good for you, and you know it.

Best to you. Merry Christmas!

NMAI

Me: BH 65.........Her: WW 55
DD: 15.......DS: 12. (5 and 2 on DDay)
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
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 imaf (original poster member #30916) posted at 11:41 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

Thanks no mistake!

Don´t worry no intention of going down that road. I have a terrible sense of pride, which is not always a good thing, but in this occasion it is.

I was just wandering if it is possible, and what are the real intentions behind WXSO trying to be friendly..... ego, grass not being greener, honest intention to be friendly.....???

Happy XMAS !!

[This message edited by imaf at 5:51 AM, December 24th (Tuesday)]

Left him because I didn´t like his other girlfriend.

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nomistakeaboutit ( member #36857) posted at 1:11 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

...maybe they are trying to relieve their guilt. If you become friends, then what they didn't maybe isn't so by after all. Apps well that ends well? That's my guess.

Me: BH 65.........Her: WW 55
DD: 15.......DS: 12. (5 and 2 on DDay)
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
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nomistakeaboutit ( member #36857) posted at 1:18 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

...and, Merry Christmas to you, too!

Me: BH 65.........Her: WW 55
DD: 15.......DS: 12. (5 and 2 on DDay)
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
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MakingLemonade ( member #41143) posted at 2:48 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

Real intentions of XWSO is to prove to the world and themselves what they have done can't be so bad if even the person who you chronically betrayed, devaluing their health and emotional well being, can overlook it. (Remind myself of it all the time.) More game playing/image projecting which I refuse to oblige. Not healthy for me. Not healthy for them. It would be a different story if there was true remorse but from my experience if they've gotten this far, it ain't gonna happen.

Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

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