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 selkiescot (original poster member #23777) posted at 11:43 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

Yesterday in the big box market where I shop there was a couple ahead of me. The man mid-50's, cashmere turtleneck very well dressed. he was with a bimbo mid 20's, fake boobsm fake blonde hair, lips looked like someone punched her, Spike heel boots, skin tight jeans and fake tan. She was sporting a diamond the size of Gibraltar and showing it off to everyone who was there.

I was listening to their converation and heard this.

The bimbo: are you coming over Christmas Eve?

The swaeter: NO my wife is having the family and I need to be there.

The BImbo whining: but you rpomised you would come over, whining more, I have a special present for you. More whining. I am not gong to ALOOOOONE all Christmas,,, whine whine whine.

Sweater: I will try to find a reason to go out. Are you not happy in the condo??? With the car?? With the ring???

Bimbo: LOUDLY but you said you were getting a divorce!!! I am not going to wait around forever you know???? whine some more.

The whole store heard this because she said it so loudly. I thought the clerk was going to hide under the conter. The sweaterman looked exasperated with the bimbo.

Finally the groceries came to an end to the tune of 800.00 Then the bimbo said you bought all of this for HER? What did you buy for me? What are WE having for our holiday? I want to go away for New Years.... can you get away? Hawaii would be nice???? I would look great in a bikini on the beach Whine whine whine.

It took all I had not to say something. I wanted to duct tape the whiny bimbos mouth shut and slap the sweater man up side his head.

The truth shall set you free or reveal the name of the OW!
ME 57
WH 64
DDAYs TOO MANY
daughter 27
You give me gifts! I don't want your gifts I want the truth. That's the greatest gift.

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suckstobeme ( member #30853) posted at 11:57 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

Sweaterman is too stupid to see that he should run for his life. Or, he realizes that Booze-um is bat shit crazy and is hoping that a big ring, a condo and a couple of nice vacations will shut her up for a little while longer. You know this won't end well. Even if he tries to get out, Booze-um will have saved a few text messages and pictures to forward right to his wife.

How sad and pathetic they are. Really. That he's that much of a disgusting pig and she's that low down, dirty, and pitiful. And to broadcast it all over a grocery store a few days before Christmas.

The older I get, the less I understand most people.

BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

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TennisTC ( member #41330) posted at 3:17 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

Wow. Just wow. My favorite was "You bought all this for HER?"

Major kudos for the self-restraint! I don't think anyone would have faulted you for breaking out the duct tape.

Me: BW Him: WH (Both early 30's)
Married 11 years with a DD 7
R'ing

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newnormal ( member #21925) posted at 3:57 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Wow! Seriously? You cant make this stuff up!

BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo

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LifeIsBroken ( member #27071) posted at 4:04 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

I might have been tempted to record the whole business and post it on U-tube.... with the question, "Who is the bigger fool in this video?

D-Day: 8/28/2009
BW: 59 @ D-Day XH: 60 @ D-Day Married 34 yrs, LIBerated: 2/17/11
Beyond terror is freedom. (Agnes Martin)

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:07 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Oh how nice. A Christmas Whore and Candyman!

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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wanttogoforward ( member #29912) posted at 4:58 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

suckstobeme....

The older you get the less you understand people? LOL! The older I get the more I am understanding that sooo many people are sooo damn selfish they think of no one but themselves.

I feel sorry for that poor mans wife... she likely has no clue what he is doing. She is sitting home all innocent and thinking he is helping get ready for a holiday by shopping.... who the hell drags their cheating lover with them to the grocery store anyway? Is he an idiot?

The man will get what he deserves in the end.... either he will be stuck with the cheap bimbo after a divorce or he will be in the living hell of the mess he has created due to his cheating ways. He clearly is in over his head.... all for a little head from someone not his wife!

If the jerk loved his wife he would dump the bimbo... beg for forgiveness.... change his ways to be a better man for his wife..... and pray they can overcome this nightmare he has created all by himself!

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justjim ( member #41150) posted at 8:54 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Do stories like this piss anyone else off the way they do me?

I have become kind of crazy when it comes to infidelity. A couple of nights ago my best friend came over and we were talking in general about cheaters. He made some remark that sounded somewhat dismissive of the seriousness of infidelity. I responded with "Understand this, no matter how long we have been friends or how deep our friendship is, if I ever found out that you were cheating on your wife our friendship would be over, i would rat you out, and I would be tempted to kill you".

Yep. It got a little uncomfortable after that. He left shortly after. (I don't think he is cheating or ever would. I think he was shocked by my passion)

Anyone else totally repulsed by the idea of a cheater? Is this hatred normal in the beginning?

Sorry if this is a t/j, but it seemed a good place to ask.

Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.

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trumanshow ( member #25624) posted at 2:09 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

oh yes-very normal

good for you for speaking up

the sad truth is nobody gets it until it happens to them- and nobody thinks it will

remarried 11-15-15

Her prize is a man who ran out on his wife and children. His is a woman who is too stupid to understand that she is not special, she is simply there.

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LoveHerStill ( member #31504) posted at 7:47 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

I think cheaters are disgusting. I see them about as klassy as common thieves. What a completely pathetic display. I think I would have read them the riot act and got the manager to remove them from the store. Maybe take a pic and follow the cheating scumbag home to show his wife the pic. Merry Christmas asshole!

Yeah, I guess I have a low tolerance for traitors, LOL

Me BH-45 @ Dday
Her WW-44 @ Dday
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011

It only hurts when I breathe.

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karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 7:53 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

I would have followed him home.

That's just nasty.

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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