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User Topic: here's to us - holiday hangout thread
inconnu
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Member # 24518
Cool  Posted: 10:32 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas Eve, SI!

I know getting through Christmas can be tough, so I wanted there to be a place where people can stop in for a little holiday love if they need to.

In keeping with the SI guidelines, this is an infidelity-free zone, so venting will have to take place in other forums.

But when you need a break, and some calorie-free, virtual drinks and goodies, this is THE place to hangout. Oh, and don't be scared off if there's some talk about dancing on the bar. That's strictly optional.

I'll be in and out, but hopefully some of our other bar thread regulars will stop in and help out. Everyone is welcome. If you're new to F&G and don't get an instant response, please be patient. I promise, we are not ignoring you. We're probably just out gathering more glitter.

I'm sure I'll switch to Christmas music later on, but for now I'll leave you with this song, and raise my glass, er..coffee mug, to us all -

Here's to Us - Halestorm (warning: explicit language)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KC0DNLDXJW8


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12172 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will not be dancing on the table but I am hoping to hang out here.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 53061 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Sad in AZ
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Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to leave for work soon (well, Christmas Eve spin class, then work) so here is my Christmas present to all


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20457 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
pregnantandsad
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Member # 40141
Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi everyone! I have never posted here before. Wanted to wish everyone Happy Holidays!!

I am working for a few hours, then baking a pie and heading to our family's annual Christmas Eve get together. Excited for my daughters very first Christmas!


M 7 years, together for 12
2 kids- DD4 and a newborn
D-Day 7/2013 he didn't want R and moved in with OW
Filed for D, almost done!

Posts: 155 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sazzy, love that Calvin + Hobbes. Reminds me of my old Siamese cats in front of the fire.

Fine day here, will be getting my flabby ass out for a ride before lunch and cocktails at the Bengal Lounge with a pal.

Will check in here tonight, to raise a toast and witness the dancing.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17713 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome, p&s! So glad you joined us.

I brought some snacks to share.



You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26214 | Registered: Aug 2011
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome pregnantandsad


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 53061 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 12:45 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Strawberry elves! So cute!!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17713 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
inconnu
♀ 24518
Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

time for some beverages?


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12172 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
Waiting4Daylite
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I brought some cookies!!!!


Posts: 1859 | Registered: Jul 2012
inconnu
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Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and a little Christmas music to help set the mood


Silent Night - Kelly Clarkson w/ Trisha Yearwood & Reba McIntire
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5BRVkgaIcaE

The Christmas Song - Nat King Cole
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=__kQ1PCP6B0

Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas - Judy Garland
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5g4lY8Y3eoo


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12172 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
Waiting4Daylite
♀ 36213
Member # 36213
Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cookies - do I NEED to bring MORE cookies?!!!

Posts: 1859 | Registered: Jul 2012
inconnu
♀ 24518
Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

since they're calorie-free, hell yes. More Cookies!!


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12172 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
traicionada
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Member # 10310
Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Dancing at the bar...Traici got new shoes too!


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3353 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
Waiting4Daylite
♀ 36213
Member # 36213
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay, here are some more. Let me know when we are getting low.


Posts: 1859 | Registered: Jul 2012
gahurts
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Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Taking it easy now. Santa came this morning. We have church in about 3 hours then Christmas Eve dinner with the kiddoes and then I bring them to their mother. After that it's opening SI Glitter cards by the light of the tree. I will definitely be here tonight to ring in the cheer and laugh and cry over my cards with you all.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3475 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm checking in for the day... Stealing many cookies.

If anyone needs drinks... Just let me know!

I'll be back with goodies soon.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24683 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas Eve everyone.

My kids are with their father. I will be volunteering at a cowboy Christmas Eve service for my church...but it is snowing hard out...

Then home to open all my SI Christmas cards with my cats and checking in with you....just like you gahurts!!

On with the festivities.


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2782 | Registered: Jan 2010
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm still at work...bah!

But I'm enjoying the calorie-free cookies and drinks here in this hangout.

Can I share some Cali weather with you all? Gorgeous here along the coast. 70 degrees and sunny.

I brought flip flops for everyone...


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7851 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eggnog, Bundaberg rum and Southern Comfort here. Drink up cuz it really is totally calorie-free! Best kind of eggnog.

We're enjoying Christmas Eve, but Merry Christmas Day to our Aussie friends.

I'll be back later, opening cards, too...... maybe a little wine then?


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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