I know this is a hard time for many in D/S. If you need a lift, head down to the Fun & Games forum and check in on the holiday hang out thread where you can pass some time with good company.
If you've never been down to F&G, don't be shy. All are welcome.
ps: It's an infidelity-free area, so leave all that stuff here, ok? You can call me NIK
"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."