my ex's gf is posting pics of my teenage kids up. one is under 13. I keep reporting it as my friends can see the pics. one was all of my kids in bikinis. how long does it take for fb to delete them? and yes, I have asked her 3 times to delete them via fb and text and I have asked my ex.
something is going on with ex. he has lost all care about his kids. all 3 are depressed, ones in counseling for suicidal thoughts and HE doesnt think it has anything to do with his gf. the fact that she lives at the house and upon her moving in, she had to destroy the whole house we built together to make it the way SHE wanted.
they have all told me they hate her. the best friend and sister of my ex hate her... yet nothing happens. Im sick of it.
will it take my child to possibly kill herself before he gets it? nope, even then he would not. he doesn't even want her to be in counseling. (or the other 2) I told him this was the issue last yr. he refused for her to get care for any. so I took her last month without telling him and shes still seeing a provider. (when gf moved in it started and each kids lost their room and had to get a new one months later) its only gotten worse over time :( I have talked to him over and over and my eldest even moved out. he still doesnt do anything.
my kids disliked my hubby alot (because he was lying and doing shady stuff) when I could see it was causing alot of issues in them, and not just myself, I walked away. since hes been gone my kids are much happier here. I see the longer the kids are at my house, the happier they are. but then they go to ex's home after a week, and we are back to dealing with bad behavior again, saddness and I have to start all over.
they vent to me for days about the gf and her sassy kid. they vent about how much the gf yells at my ex. so they sit in their rooms the majority of the time at his house. when he leaves town, she wont even watch them or take kids to his appts on HIS days.
the gf (per my kids) is very into herself. thinks she knows it all. my suicidal daughter is now very self concious. the gf brings her to victoria secret to shop and is always taking her to get makeup and her eyebrows threaded. GRR! shes 12. the gf wear high heels and short skirts to work and in front of my kids (i have seen this) and she jokes about in front of them. Im so livid. I hope they break up. he and I used to get along till she came around.
there are tons of other women in the world, why cant he pick one that doesnt have 300 pairs of $200 shoes, make my kids feel less pretty and they really dislike her and her bratty kid that spits on my kids. ahh. I just want to scream. how is a dad so clueless. reminds me of my mother who chose a man who hates kids. thats so selfish.