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Roxyme765 posted 12/25/2013 14:24 PM
Separated.. Trying to decide if I want to work it out... Spending Christmas together for our daughter.... Came to WS's families for Christmas dinner... I walk into the bathroom and see a piece of furniture that my sister had given us as a wedding present. He had also given another family member a box of my Cd's and other small things he said he didn't have room for (he has moved into an apartment and I am living with a friend. Our house is on the market). He said he is sorry and didn't realize it was a big deal. I am so angry right now. I feel like it's another thing that he did where he didn't consider my feelings at all. He didn't even ask me if it was ok to give these things away. Now I am angry and stuck at his families for another who knows how many hours. I feel like a child throwing a temper tantrum right now.
Arrrgh! Ahhhhh!
karmahappens posted 12/25/2013 14:32 PM
I am sorry, that is lousy.
What a shit!
Remember why you are there right now, one step at a time. Spend the time engaging with your daughter.
You have time for decision making, today isn't it.
((hugs)) and strength for the rest of the day.
Roxyme765 posted 12/25/2013 14:36 PM
I feel like a big idiot now because we went outside and I yelled at him. Now I have to go back in there and I'm sure all his family thinks I am being a crazy mean person and messing up Christmas. :(
karmahappens posted 12/25/2013 14:50 PM
What his family thinks of you is none of your concern.
Concentrate on what you can control...just yourself.
You have nothing to be embarassed about, you have done nothing wrong.
Go easy on you.
Skan posted 12/25/2013 15:33 PM
Be kind to yourself today. You have every right to feel as you do. And tomorrow, get yourself a storage unit and move EVERYTHING that you have the vaguest interest in keeping, into it. (((hugs)))
kra127 posted 12/25/2013 19:18 PM
I don't blame you for being pissed. Go to your storage and pick up the stuff that you want. If that's not possible, go to storage and use florescent orange paper to put notes on everything that you don't want to be given away. Maybe WH will get the message that way. Don't worry about his family. Just focus on your daughter and yourself.