I want to say we should stop allowing ourselves to be treated like that - just stop it immediately and forever more, all of us, never put up with that sort of disrespect - but if it were easy we would have done it already.
And then it all came out. And everyone sided with me (except his whore, his family, and the other cheating asshats that he associated with). All his friends? My friends now. All his colleagues? My colleagues now, and rooting for me.
Don't be embarrassed. He did this, not you. All you did was be loyal, loving and kind. You have NOTHING to be ashamed of.
He is generally a covert flirt. He can be very charming and play a KISA but always behind closed doors. In front of me it was always business but when alone even through e-mail it was all jokes, winks, teasing, you can talk to me about anything, and sexual innuendos. I can't even imagine how he is in person behind my back! Eek!
Oh new info he gave me the other day....he joked on the way down to Ft. Worth with a female co-worker "what happens in Ft. Worth, stays in Ft. Worth" but assures me nothing happened. Sheesh...why say something like that?
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