She has her paperwork in place, money she doesn't deserve coming her way and her last day is Friday. I wouldn't have him send anything at this point.
It might piss her off and she could change her mind and still get an atty for the loss of her job.
JMO, but I would let her slink off and never say another word to her.
I hope he is getting into IC and you as well. This is one hell of a roller-coaster and you may need help navigating.
When the two of you have healed you can decide what you want. It's so early now to really know.
Take time and be good to you. Come here when you need to vent or you need some direction.
You will get through this.