Now, if she tries to come back and start drama, contact your WH, or violate the terms that the lawyer set forth, then have that lawyer draw up an official NC letter. But right now, focus on your family. If you really, really need to see that letter, have your WH write it out, give it to you, and then the two of you burn it. But her being out of your lives was the immediate goal so please, don't jeopardize that. (((hugs)))
D-Day, June 10, 2012
It might piss her off and she could change her mind and still get an atty for the loss of her job.
JMO, but I would let her slink off and never say another word to her.
I hope he is getting into IC and you as well. This is one hell of a roller-coaster and you may need help navigating.
When the two of you have healed you can decide what you want. It's so early now to really know.
Take time and be good to you. Come here when you need to vent or you need some direction.
You will get through this.
We are done.