My BS has really jumped in with both feet in the last 2 weeks or so with working it out. We had a great Christmas Eve dinner together then with the kids that evening. We stayed up late wrapping presents and I even got to sleep in my own bed with my wife.
Had a great morning too, but I could tell something was starting to bother her. She asked me to take one of the kids and go ahead of her to my parent's house where we celebrated Xmas with the extended family. Everything was ok there, but I could tell I wasn't going home tonight. We got the kids in her car and she was being very quiet. I asked her if she needed help with the kids tonight and she said no.(I am currently staying at my parents house)
I know it was hard for her to come today. i have been giving her lots of appreciation and love the last couple days. I am so thankful for what I have received from her lately. I am trying to use these things to stay positive and happy rather than be sad tonight.
There are more ups than downs lately, but the downs stink even more because I can see her pain so much better now that we are becoming so close.
At this moment I don't know the best way to support her. She probably wants to be left alone but I really feel I should somehow express my appreciation for her and all of this. I feel i cam trust my heart now that we are on this path. Maybe a call a little later or text.
Just thinking out loud I guess.