Thank you so much! I had no idea how good it
Would feel to be validated. I feel like I've been wrong.
And I've been overreacting.
Because that's what he tells me. And he's so convincing.
Thank you Skan your words are very validating and clarifying.
And make me feel like I'm not crazy.
And roxyme765 our situations seem very similar.
It's is odd how similar people act.
And also were both separated and undecided on
Today I told him I was ready to move on.
Because I know he's not telling me the truth.
And he just comes back with Unserious
game playing. He said I don't know what your talking about
but I guess I'll move on too. And then he turns his location
Services back off so I can't find him.
All his friends were girls from work. And he's been
Living at his sisters. And I can always find him
There with gps. And from the cell bill he not texting anyone.
It looks like he playing phone games and watching
Shows. The data is all I see. Except a few texts to work.
So it did seem like he was trying. And he seems
Lonely. But that's it. No truth, no being nice, except
When I just appease and talk small talk.
He had at least turned on location services And stop texting her. But the second I express myself he gets mad.
And goes backwards.
And the way that woman looked at me was a dead giveaway.
She's way more guilty than him. So I have missing
Days where I still don't know what he was doing. A bunch of
Slip ups that don't add up.
And is what I found.cell bill , Nothing else.
I lost 25 pounds in 3 weeks. And all he cared about
Was that looked better ?He had no concern
that I was devastated and hadn't eaten. I just feel like he can't be serious
He has to play games. It's all a power war to him.
And he talks SO bad about me to anyone who will listen.
I can see his iMessages. He's talking to me and
Another friend at the same time. And his messages
To me I can't even read it looked like he's typing
Drunk. And incoherent And to the friend it's perfect.
Typing. What the heck?
Also I went in the store and went up to the girl
He said he almost slept with and I introduced
Myself. And said my husband told me all about you.
He said he really likes you and you were good friends
Her husband was right there. She was trying so hard
To ignore me. I could tell she was incredibly
Uncomfortable. And her husband seemed really sweet.
She actually seems nice and remorseful
. After I did that, she unfriended him on FB.
I want to ask her what happened.
But I have no idea how she would be. All I have to go
On is my husbands confession that he later took back. and her guilty face.
I do know that when he said that he was serious.
There's no way he was just telling me that.
He was crying and drunk.
Should I ask her? I'd have to show up at her
House. Cuz there's no way she'd answer a text
[This message edited by Greenfrog at 4:09 AM, December 27th (Friday)]