Oh boy. I understand that feeling. The other poster who suggested NC...that poster knows what she's talking about.
Only put yourself on the middle of others affairs if you want to be in the middle.!
I deeply fear for you that any additional contact with any of those people is just going to hurt you. Right now it seems it would feel good. And probably like the heady elation when your home teams win.
But after, it will hurt you to have acted with vengeance.
You want to feel better or you want to be "right?'
Sometimes it's a tough call in the heat of it, but promise promise so much better for you to feel better. Going after OW on any way
.well it WILL Backfire.
Promise that too. I know it's sooooooo hard.