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User Topic: Tomorrow
Griefstricken25
♀ 29183
Member # 29183
Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tomorrow, SD (short for sperm donor) takes the kids for 5 days. SD lives overseas and was just here in the summer, after not being here for 2.5 years. The fact that he's at his parents' place for Christmas, only 5 months later is WEIRD, WEIRD, WEIRD. I won't get into all the reasons why, but it's WEIRD. So, that makes me uneasy. He makes me uneasy anyway with perverted behaviour and actions that could potentially influence my children, particularly my daughter. His whole family makes me uneasy for their lack of morals and values. It makes me uneasy that they are traveling 8 hours away, on winter roads, and that SD is the only adult this time (OW stayed home! I wonder how they unattached their hips!) and will have to take my daughter into men's washrooms (her older brothers have instructions that everyone goes to the bathroom at the same time on the trip).

All I can do is pray, so I'm asking for others to think and pray for my kids until they are returned to me on Dec. 30. Thanks all!


Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011

Posts: 2529 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: A better place
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, no.. I hate WEIRD, the gut wrenching in your bones WEIRD. *shudder*

Praying and holding you in my heart. Five days, it feels like an eternity.

I am glad the kidlets are together.

(((hugs))) to you my friend.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5910 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Griefstricken25
♀ 29183
Member # 29183
Default  Posted: 12:48 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, caregiver, that means so much!!


Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011

Posts: 2529 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: A better place
Dreamland
♀ 40488
Member # 40488
Default  Posted: 12:49 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending good thoughts that they arrive safe and sound back to you quickly. 4 more days:)


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 1:06 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh. I join you in not liking aspects of this trip. Too many weird things. I pray this is just an uneventful visit. Boring, even. And that the kids return happy to see you & sleep in their own beds. And use their own bathroom safely.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10026 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
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