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User Topic: Tori Spelling (karma)
aLadypilot
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://wonderwall.msn.com/tv/gossip-tori-spelling-shows-off-christmas-cheer-amid-dean-mcdermott-cheating-report-1789203.story?ocid=answw11

OMG, who would have ever thunk it?

(I do feel for the kids, if it's true.)


Divorced 9/2010
Just married 7/4/13

Posts: 4084 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Twin Cities
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, you know what they say: if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. So much for their "special" lurve.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 5896 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
million tears
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's a dirtbag. And she's not much better.


2 year LTA-double betrayal, D-day 1-26-2009 and many months of TT. 2 more recent d-days-way overstepped boundaries.

Married 27 years. Together 29.

3 children 24, 21, 14

OW sex addict and romance addict according to MC.


Posts: 1664 | Registered: Jun 2009
aLadypilot
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm surprised she and Leeann Rimes aren't besties, by now.


Divorced 9/2010
Just married 7/4/13

Posts: 4084 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Twin Cities
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"He told me he and Tori had a sexless marriage," alleges Goodhand. "I believed him."

Bet that's what he told Tori about her first M.

Well Tori, if you find yourself on SI, you'll find support. The best way to find peace and heal will be by facing your choices as an OW.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11274 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
Dreamland
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Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes they had a sexless marriage that's why she was always popping out another kid. Yes if he cheated with you he'll cheat on you..
Karma hurts bitch


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
goodbye_virginia
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh she AND Leann rimes make me sick!

And Helena Bonham Carter...


Me- BW 35
Him - WH 43

Posts: 53 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: Texas
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Schadenfreude baby.

Well he was mad because he couldn't get his vasectomy. They all deserve each other.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2295 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is HBC a cheater?


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1758 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think HBC "took" Kenneth Brannaugh (SP?) out from under Emma Thompson.

Then they all went on to do Harry Potter togetherish.


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18276 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The homely wench deserves it. I bet his first XW had a merry, merry, merry XMas.

Now, for horse-face Rimes to get her's as well.

Never liked either one of them, even less so now.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 773 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
goodbye_virginia
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Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, HBC took Brannagh AND Tim Burton.


Me- BW 35
Him - WH 43

Posts: 53 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: Texas
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, if HBC was the OW to Tim Burton, karma has come to her too...rumors are he's cheated on her now too.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11274 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
suckstobeme
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Default  Posted: 6:26 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read her latest book and it was more than clear that the marriage struggles. She tries WAY too hard to make it seem like rainbows and unicorns and he's as detached and annoyed as any wayward spouse I've heard of on these boards. Together, they are a train wreck and those 4 poor kids will get caught in the crossfire just like his son from the first marriage.

Tori Spelling is, and always will be, a delusional dipshit. Dean McDermott, is and always will be, a selfish POS who runs when life gets too real. I read his first wife's book too and it's never advertised that they had just adopted a 7 week old baby girl when he decided to take a powder with TS, the woman he believed would have him rolling in money forever. In fact, his first wife was feeding the infant when he called to announce that he fell in love with TS, who he had known for all of 3 weeks.


BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

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Random thoughts
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Default  Posted: 6:42 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My take on this is, he like everyone else, thought that Tori was the apple of her father's eye and her father would be that enabling doting dad that put her in most of his shows.

Only to find that daddy was pissed at Tori for marrying a golddigger that left his wife and son and stb adopted daughter, didn't help that a year before he shelled out a million for her wedding.

So daddy cut off the money and then died, leaving Candi who didn't care for him either.

I think he was sticking around until grandma kicked the bucket and now knows that she's in good health and more than likely won't be leaving Tori half of her estate when she passes, I'm thinking that the grand kids are in the will and Dean knows that he is not nor ever will get his hands on Candi's money.

If they do divorce I have to wonder if he tries the she's more famous then me and can bring in more money than me, therefor I should be a stay at home dad.


Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
FWW

Posts: 1612 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Some where in New Jersey
million tears
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dean's first wife wrote a book on her experience with infidelity. I would like to read it.

It makes me sick that they were just about to finalize the adoption of the baby when he left her for Tori.


2 year LTA-double betrayal, D-day 1-26-2009 and many months of TT. 2 more recent d-days-way overstepped boundaries.

Married 27 years. Together 29.

3 children 24, 21, 14

OW sex addict and romance addict according to MC.


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painfulpast
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Didn't know about HBC. I have zero respect for Dean and Tori - both married, he a father. Selfish pigs. Now she knows what it feels like to be the BS. Have fun bitch.

Alicia Keys is another one that can fall off the face of the earth for all I care. The BS here was pregnant, and had children with WS when Alicia showed up and didn't care at all. The poor woman even went public and asked Alicia to please leave her family alone. Nope - Alicia just took what she wanted.

Screw her.


The stones from my enemies, these wounds will mend
but I cannot survive the roses from my friends

Posts: 1898 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast
jlb2005
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read Dean's wife's book. She's a classy lady who was devastated and lost, like many of us were under same circumstances. Tori and Dean treated her like most cheaters do, with disdain, anger and contempt. Totally felt for her, but admired the way she held it together.

I think a lot of times these "perfect" relationships that start off with affairs try to remain together because to do otherwise would prove they were w r o n g and that destroying their families wasn't really worth it, which is something they will NEVER admit. Therein lies the karma!!

Feel zero sympathy for Tori, but predict that their kids are in for some bad times, which is incredibly sad.


Me - BS (53)
Him - WH (53)
Married 18 yrs
Son, 21 yo; Daughter, 14 yo.
H and I now divorced.

Posts: 801 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: Texas
WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's eight kinds of awesome that when I goggled "Kenneth Braunagh Helena Bonaham Carter" all the hits were for EMMA THOMPSON!!!!


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 661 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
aLadypilot
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I vaguely remember Dean talking about the birth of his "first" daughter, and was appalled that he does not recognize his adopted daughter as his first daughter. I'm sure his first wife didn't just have the idea to adopt all on her own (although she perhaps finalized the adoption as a single parent, I assume?) What a huge jackass he is!


Divorced 9/2010
Just married 7/4/13

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