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Topic: Joyful Resolutions
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nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 |  Posted: 11:30 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 |     |
I'm not a big fan of New Year's resolutions. I did make one last NYE, however. I wanted more joy in my life, so I resolved to dance (at least a little) every day this year. And I have to tell you, it was awesome! And it is the only resolution I've ever made that made me happy each and every time I acted on it. 
So I'm working on a similar resolution for 2014. One that brings me happiness rather than feeling like an obligation. Several ideas bouncing around in my head still, but I have a couple of days before I make the call.
Anyone want to join me in making a joyful resolution?
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28204 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697 | | Posted: 11:46 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
I resolve to cackle joyfully in public and feel no shame.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4956 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 11:51 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
 Yay!
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28204 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
ItHappened2Me2
♀ 32503
Member # 32503 | | Posted: 12:05 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
I'll join in -- but I'm gonna have to give some thought as to what my resolution will be.
LOVE the dance resolution 
BS - me (52); WS - him (52)
DD 15yo, DS 11 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013 - he started up again with the
Posts: 241 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Texas |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 12:12 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
My resolution? Hmmmm.
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 53959 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
TheRealDeal
♀ 39560
Member # 39560 | | Posted: 12:17 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
resolved to dance (at least a little) every day
Thank you NIK, I love it enough to make it a resolution for 2014!
And my other resolution would have to be not to care what I look like when I dance, just get up and dance!
The timing of your post is perfect...I had just got done registering for a belly-dance class, something I've wanted to do for a long time. First class starts January 5 and I've talked my friend and her daughter into joining me too.
Me (BS): 46 him (fws): 54
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March thru June 2013
in R and trying to make it
Never lose yourself trying to hang onto someone who doesn't care about losing you.
Posts: 316 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 12:30 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
More yay!
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28204 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
Jpapageorge
♂ 31800
Member # 31800 | | Posted: 3:01 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
A few years ago I resolved to make no more New Year's resolutions and I have managed to follow through.
Out of respect for the Empress, I resolve to smile in public at least once this year. 
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Posts: 1800 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 4:19 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
I'll take it! Yay!
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28204 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041 | | Posted: 4:24 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
I resolve to take it as it comes. Whatever it is.
“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin
Posts: 46565 | Registered: Sep 2006 |
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041 | | Posted: 4:26 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
Also, I resolve to go on a trip, or several. I don't know how or where, but I want to, so I will.
“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin
Posts: 46565 | Registered: Sep 2006 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 4:34 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
Go, meta!
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28204 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
travels
♀ 20334
Member # 20334 | | Posted: 4:55 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
A friend makes a list of 101 things to do in the New Year.
I'm boring. I can't come up with 101 things to do. My list is stalled at 53 things to do in 2014.  
Anyway, one of the things on my list for 2013 was to dance everyday.
When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
Posts: 3793 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: PA |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 5:21 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
Love it, travels! Not sure I could even come up with 53.
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28204 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
goodbye_virginia
♀ 16321
Member # 16321 | | Posted: 6:54 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
I did the MC Hammer dance at Jersey Mike's today.
Me- BW 35
Him - WH 43
Posts: 53 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: Texas |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 | | Posted: 9:18 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
I resolve to hug my DS a little more often and a little tighter every single day... He's growing up so fast.
I resolve to laugh out loud with my family everyday... in some way over anything we can find to laugh about.
I resolve to find joy in the everyday!
Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25017 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 9:19 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
Yay, jrc!
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28204 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
HUFI-PUFI
♂ 25460
Member # 25460 | | Posted: 10:02 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
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Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
Posts: 3293 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario |
tryingagain74
♀ 33698
Member # 33698 | | Posted: 10:14 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013 | |
I always resolve to be a better mom, sister, daughter, and friend. That's always my number one.
But, I do have two others.
The first is to start piecing together the quilt that my great aunt was making for me when she died. She left behind all of the pre-made squares, some sections that were put together, and tons of squares that need to be filled and stitched up. I would feel kind of amazing if I did that.
The other is to Write The Novel. I have been wanting to do that for years. Maybe putting together the quilt is more realistic!
Anyway, I'm putting those out there to encourage some follow-through on my part!
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3723 | Registered: Oct 2011 |
Gajit
♀ 40665
Member # 40665 | | Posted: 6:55 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013 | |
So far mine are:
1. quit smoking (again, already using e-cigs so trying)
2. be a better housekeeper
3. get a job
Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.
Posts: 224 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: USA |
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