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Topic: nothing big, just packing is So so so so slow

TheAgonyOfIt
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Posted: 12:10 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013

packing up house under the radar but still have to attend to regular life. it is so so so slow. sorting, deciding, buttoning and all that. Moving along but wish i could do it faster. that's it. thanks.

Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Left home, job, whole life behind and difficult** adjusting. Dog injured and too much to handle. Supremely bummed out.

Posts: 554 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: theagonyofit

nowiknow23
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Posted: 12:15 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013

I know it seems slow, honey, but after a while, you will be surprised by all you have accomplished.

Patience and strength to you.

You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

Posts: 28227 | Registered: Aug 2011

LoveHerStill
♂ 31504
Member # 31504

Posted: 3:46 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013

Every box is an accomplishment! Keep at it! Make sure to reward yourself every day you get some boxes packed. A nice coffee or an ice cream treat! You are strong! You got this!

Me BH-45
Her WW-44
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011

There is hope. Once you truly commit to focusing on yourself and letting go, it comes back, and you will appreciate it like never before.

Posts: 567 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Coeur d 'Alene, Idaho

BAB61
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Posted: 5:25 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013

Do what you can, as you can. I am mentally packing up all his shit ... can't wait to get started.

Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE

TheAgonyOfIt
♀ 39114
Member # 39114

Posted: 9:45 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013

thanks everyone. it's slow but I am getting rid of more stuff than i'm putting into boxes, which is also good!!!! Donations, donations. Less to move. i just wish I could do it faster, but i just can't because it's not all i have to do! WS is out of town until sunday; i wish he'd stay there!

AND i have a home based business with INVENTORY which makes it that much more of a chore.

Thanks for responding to my smallest problem. I'm so happy this is my problem now. It's so much better than dealing with trying to work it out with WS!

Posts: 554 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: theagonyofit

sunsetslost
♂ 39885
Member # 39885

Posted: 12:40 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013

I would give my therapist updates. She let me roll with it. I can be out in two days. Next week: I can be out in 18 hours. Next week: still 18 hours. Didn't have the energy. Next week: I can be out in 12 hours. Next week: I can be out in 6. Next week: out in 2. Next week: I moved last Saturday.

Point is slow and steady wins. And when it's time to go you can just be gone

Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 793 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.

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