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TheAgonyOfIt posted 12/27/2013 12:10 PM

packing up house under the radar but still have to attend to regular life. it is so so so slow. sorting, deciding, buttoning and all that. Moving along but wish i could do it faster. that's it. thanks.

nowiknow23 posted 12/27/2013 12:15 PM

I know it seems slow, honey, but after a while, you will be surprised by all you have accomplished.

Patience and strength to you.

LoveHerStill posted 12/27/2013 15:46 PM

Every box is an accomplishment! Keep at it! Make sure to reward yourself every day you get some boxes packed. A nice coffee or an ice cream treat! You are strong! You got this!

BAB61 posted 12/27/2013 17:25 PM

Do what you can, as you can. I am mentally packing up all his shit ... can't wait to get started.

TheAgonyOfIt posted 12/27/2013 21:45 PM

thanks everyone. it's slow but I am getting rid of more stuff than i'm putting into boxes, which is also good!!!! Donations, donations. Less to move. i just wish I could do it faster, but i just can't because it's not all i have to do! WS is out of town until sunday; i wish he'd stay there!

AND i have a home based business with INVENTORY which makes it that much more of a chore.

Thanks for responding to my smallest problem. I'm so happy this is my problem now. It's so much better than dealing with trying to work it out with WS!

sunsetslost posted 12/28/2013 00:40 AM

I would give my therapist updates. She let me roll with it. I can be out in two days. Next week: I can be out in 18 hours. Next week: still 18 hours. Didn't have the energy. Next week: I can be out in 12 hours. Next week: I can be out in 6. Next week: out in 2. Next week: I moved last Saturday.

Point is slow and steady wins. And when it's time to go you can just be gone