I am so grateful for that post and for my moment of clarity.
I hope that wherever you are in this journey, that 2014 brings all of you love and peace.
Also, please remember the magical place that SI is. Sometimes we think our posts go unheard, unread, or don't make an impact. You never know when a post, or even a sentence, will change someone's life.
All of us here have value. Thank you all for your continued devotion and support to SI and to each other.
This site has helped and continues to help me through this difficult time.
The kind and thoughtful people here helped me to hold on to my faith in people. I have experience such kindness that it leaves me in awe.
I remember how I found this site. In 2012, a couple of weeks after dday #1, I was so alone, every night in such agony. I just sat down at the computer and typed in "surviving infidelity", here you all were. Amazing. This community of kind, compassionate, caring and intelligent people, waiting to help, wanting to help. I felt so alone, so abandoned and you were all here giving of yourselves. Truly amazing.
During false R, I could come here and get the support and compassion missing in my real life. That held me up, kept me strong, let me hold on to the knowledge that compassion was real, not just a fantasy.
I will be forever grateful for each and every person that reached out to me.
Thank you all for being the wonderful people that you are.
forever,
Can
dday October 21,2012 dday December 20, 2013 wh deleted I attempted R, he was a lie
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be. ― Sarah McMane
