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authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 8:45 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
It just reminded me of late December back in 2008, my final d-day. Because of a post by a veteran, I decided I couldn't start my 2009 with any more lies.
I am so grateful for that post and for my moment of clarity.
I hope that wherever you are in this journey, that 2014 brings all of you love and peace.
Also, please remember the magical place that SI is. Sometimes we think our posts go unheard, unread, or don't make an impact. You never know when a post, or even a sentence, will change someone's life.
All of us here have value. Thank you all for your continued devotion and support to SI and to each other.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
steadfast1973 ( member #24719) posted at 9:49 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
So many posts have helped be so much in the past 4 years. SI has been a huge godsend to me through both ddays.
Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"
devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 10:04 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
I've said it before and I'll say it again. I couldn't have made it through this pain without all you guys. I'm sure I'll need everyone's counsel for many, many months (years) to come. It's so good to be with others who have been where I am. It's so great to know, I am not alone.
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 11:36 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
I will be forever grateful for the compassionate and heartfelt people that I have met here.
This site has helped and continues to help me through this difficult time.
The kind and thoughtful people here helped me to hold on to my faith in people. I have experience such kindness that it leaves me in awe.
I remember how I found this site. In 2012, a couple of weeks after dday #1, I was so alone, every night in such agony. I just sat down at the computer and typed in "surviving infidelity", here you all were. Amazing. This community of kind, compassionate, caring and intelligent people, waiting to help, wanting to help. I felt so alone, so abandoned and you were all here giving of yourselves. Truly amazing.
During false R, I could come here and get the support and compassion missing in my real life. That held me up, kept me strong, let me hold on to the knowledge that compassion was real, not just a fantasy.
I will be forever grateful for each and every person that reached out to me.
Thank you all for being the wonderful people that you are.
forever,
Can
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 11:53 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 1:16 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
Such an awesome message of hope and encouragement. Thank you, AN. 
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 1:48 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
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