"So often times it happens, that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key"
I will be forever grateful for the compassionate and heartfelt people that I have met here.
This site has helped and continues to help me through this difficult time.
The kind and thoughtful people here helped me to hold on to my faith in people. I have experience such kindness that it leaves me in awe.
I remember how I found this site. In 2012, a couple of weeks after dday #1, I was so alone, every night in such agony. I just sat down at the computer and typed in "surviving infidelity", here you all were. Amazing. This community of kind, compassionate, caring and intelligent people, waiting to help, wanting to help. I felt so alone, so abandoned and you were all here giving of yourselves. Truly amazing.
During false R, I could come here and get the support and compassion missing in my real life. That held me up, kept me strong, let me hold on to the knowledge that compassion was real, not just a fantasy.
I will be forever grateful for each and every person that reached out to me.
Thank you all for being the wonderful people that you are.
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
attempted R, it was all a lie