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User Topic: Three years with SO
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi everyone!

I hope you all are doing well. Wishing you all a wonderful new year.

Life has been treating me "ok" with an accent on "pretty well" since the divorce. I've had some issues with DS14 and DS16. With DS14 it's been that he has not been interested in anything after a strep throat episode (not going to school), and with DS16 it has been his use of hashish. But things are getting better.

Career wise all is well. Socially, all is well. My health is ok.

I met SO one month before exWH married OW2. They had their second son this year. So time flies.

We are doing well, he is the best companion and love ever. He is so funny, and we crack jokes a lot. He just fits me.

We don't live together, but in the same town. Our plan is to get married or move in together when my youngest is an adult (I live in a european country where co-habitation is the norm - ).

God has a way of working things out.

I was so ready to be alone though, for about a year before I met him. So it was weird that I really needed space, and at the same time, I found a nice companion.

Posts: 1188 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Europe
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad to read this update, BoardPearl! Hope there's nothing but smooth days ahead for you and your boys.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Default  Posted: 1:51 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great update .. Sounds like you have survived infedility beautifully.

Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”

Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
♀ 25463
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, nowiknow23 and timeforchange!

We are selling the house where we have lived since 1999. With the exception of our time abroad as expats.

I'm so excited to just up and leave. I need this change and I know the boys are ready too.

Won't be moving in with SO, but will be renting an apartment with DS 14 and 16.

Posts: 1188 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Europe
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