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User Topic: So I sent the OW an X-Mas card...
SpotlessMind
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know, I know. But I couldn't help myself.

I found out about her existence in Sept, the fact that this was a PA in October, but just recently discovered what a creeper she is. She liked to play games...leaving a scathing and personal review on my book months before it ever came out (she didn't have access to a copy) under a fake account she created just to ream me. Then commenting all over WS's Facebook page for past year, dropping little hints that I was too oblivious and trusting to get at the time. Bringing up a logo on WS's shirt in one pic--a shirt that came from a race they ran together. Talking about a football game they met at in another. Commenting on photos of our children. Changing her FB account name to a name that matched the profile character pic she used to write the bad review.

( side note: when WS "broke up" with her for several months, she responded by sending him pics of another guy's schlong. Classy.)

Anyway. Basically, I just couldn't live with her thinking I was still in the dark about all of her game-playing crap, that she was still pulling one over on me. So I sent a card that had a very nice family photo.

On the back, I was tempted to write something really mean. But I forced myself to remember that she's clearly a broken and unhappy person.

So all I did was address the card to her ( putting her fake names in parenthesis) and then wrote: "May the NewYear both treat you with and teach you kindness."

Lame, but satisfying.

[This message edited by SpotlessMind at 3:43 PM, December 27th (Friday)]


fWS/BS--me
BH/WH--him
Married: 12 yrs
D-Day: October
Kids: yes

Posts: 277 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Where am I?
steadfast1973
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I considered something similar after dday#1.


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2286 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
steadfast1973
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I considered something similar after dday#1.


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2286 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
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