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 mrcpu (original poster member #38157) posted at 11:39 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013

This isn't A related but I have to vent. 2012 my WW had an A with my xBFF. D-Day was Dec 22 2012. This tailspun me and I was "laid off" Nov 2013. I have landed a new job starting in January so things should be looking up.

It seems the cost of things being better is that not one, but BOTH my cars are in need of repairs. My one car is off the road entirely with up to $3k in work needed. My WW has been driving the other car to work while I'm off and now it is leaking fluid and will need work. I topped up the fluid that is slowly leaking and hope she makes it through tomorrow. There is no bus into the city on Saturdays. Monday she has to take the bus and I will take the car to the transmission shop and see what they have to say.

ARRRGGGG. Can't I just please get a break?!?!?!

D-Day 1: 22 Dec 2012 - Confirmed WW was having an affair with my xBFF
D-Day 2: 22 July 2014 - Caught WW working on a hookup online with local real estate agent.
D-Day 3: 18 Dec 2014 - Caught WW Breaking NC with my xBFF for past 2 months via text.

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steadfast1973 ( member #24719) posted at 11:42 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013

Both of our cars need repairs, too. it stinks. Like we needed any more stress, right now. We were sitting pretty financially before dday... Now, it's piling up... And causing my husband more guilt...

Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"

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steadfast1973 ( member #24719) posted at 11:42 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013

Sorry... My ipad is really giving me some hate, today... Duplicate post...

[This message edited by steadfast1973 at 5:43 PM, December 27th (Friday)]

Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"

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