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cl131716 posted 12/27/2013 20:46 PM

From way back when we were dating. I had him make a timeline the other day. Apparently I missed a page. He told me in person that he had met the first women he cheated with at Target BEFORE we got together and she kissed him on the cheek. As a you know...."goodbye to the friendship thing" because he was interested in me. The thing is the circumstances don't match because he said it was after his route change which was actually two months into our relationship. I just reread the timeline and noticed he had wrote "peck on the lips" instead of cheek. Still lying. He's still at work so I haven't talked to him about it but I am giving him one last chance to come clean. I will let on that I caught him in a lie but nothing more. This just sucks.

workindad posted 12/27/2013 22:31 PM

Looks like TT to me.

Sorry for the spot you are in, but your gut is probably right in this case.

Good luck
WD

tagalong posted 12/28/2013 10:59 AM

What's TT? I don't see it in the list of abbreviations.

painfulpast posted 12/28/2013 11:07 AM

Trickle Truth - it's when the BS gets information piecemeal.

EX: WS says there was no sex. Two weeks later, there was some 'making out and groping' but no sex. Three weeks after that there was oral sex, but no 'sex sex'. One more week - they had sex once. Another 4 days - they had sex 7 times.

Trickle truth - very harmful to R