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Topic: New info...I guess this is TT?

cl131716
♀ 40699
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Posted: 8:46 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013

From way back when we were dating. I had him make a timeline the other day. Apparently I missed a page. He told me in person that he had met the first women he cheated with at Target BEFORE we got together and she kissed him on the cheek. As a you know...."goodbye to the friendship thing" because he was interested in me. The thing is the circumstances don't match because he said it was after his route change which was actually two months into our relationship. I just reread the timeline and noticed he had wrote "peck on the lips" instead of cheek. Still lying.

He's still at work so I haven't talked to him about it but I am giving him one last chance to come clean. I will let on that I caught him in a lie but nothing more. This just sucks.

Me BS 33 Him WS 37
Together 6 years, married almost 4 years
D-day: 07/23/13 EA with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out about a past kiss
D-day: 05/30/16 Saw first text message from new COW
D-day: 09-08-16 Dr. Fone confirmed EA

Posts: 1243 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma

workindad
♂ 41790
Member # 41790

Posted: 10:31 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013

Looks like TT to me.

Sorry for the spot you are in, but your gut is probably right in this case.

Good luck
WD

Posts: 16 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States

tagalong
♀ 41770
Member # 41770

Posted: 10:59 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013

What's TT? I don't see it in the list of abbreviations.

living together separately, preparing for divorce

my WS is 7 years older
we have been together 21 years
DDay for last known EA: December 15, 2013
WS had prior known short EA with a kiss years before
WS exhibiting textbook mid-life crisis behaviors,

Posts: 65 | Registered: Dec 2013

painfulpast
♀ 41038
Member # 41038

Posted: 11:07 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013

Trickle Truth - it's when the BS gets information piecemeal.

EX: WS says there was no sex. Two weeks later, there was some 'making out and groping' but no sex. Three weeks after that there was oral sex, but no 'sex sex'. One more week - they had sex once. Another 4 days - they had sex 7 times.

Trickle truth - very harmful to R

DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband

Posts: 2246 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast

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