Is this normal?
Normal? No. Sadly way too common with some WS's and BS's(understandably) though.
I feel you. It's been two years between drinks for me. But then I deserve it, you don't.
You haven't given much to go on, so I am going to ask questions. Please don't be offended.
Have you discussed the problem with him?
Does he acknowlege it is a serious problem with the marriage?
Are you passive. That is do you expect him to iniate all the time?
Do you do anything to entice him?
You could try the direct approach. Like "Hey WS, I'm a full grown healthy woman with needs, I want sex right now, time to man up".
On the other hand maybe he has ED or PE issues and is too embarrassed.
It may be an hormonal issue (low testosterone). He may need to seek medical help.
Does he have a porn & masterbation habit?
Maybe he doesn't want you, he just wants you around.
If that's the case, you have a decision to make.
Hope this helps.
[This message edited by SlowUptake at 9:49 PM, December 29th (Sunday)]
Dday Dec 2009
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