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Newest Member: Jojo88 (61157)

User Topic: I'm back
Feb 8, 2011
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Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just finished texting with a friend/confidante of my ww. I guess it was a BIG mistake to break off a fun and promising new relationship back in June to give her another chance.

Turns out that there was more than one affair, and that she saw me as just a sperm donor. An that she had cheated in virtually every previous relationship. (I knew of one.)

It's well and truly over now. We ended it (again)on Christmas Day, and tonight when I dropped of my son at her place, there was another vehicle in the driveway. I now know not to believe a single word that that woman ever tells me ever again.

D-Day see username
and maybe March 11, 11
ME: 45 yr old BH
Her: 40 yr old WW
3 kids
married 11 years
Who is this woman in my house?!

Posts: 717 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: canada
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Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

Posts: 5594 | Registered: Aug 2013
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Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry (((Feb))) I'm GLAD that you've seen the truth of her and are moving on.

~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"

Posts: 10024 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
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Member # 27673
Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Say that it isn't so!

Sorry, friend. It sucks beyond definition. Why can't they learn to be honest after all this time?

The only positive that I can offer you, is that you know what you need to do. You have enough knowledge and experience here to get yourself out of this mess.

Maybe you want to kick yourself for putting yourself in this position once again, but it happens often....regrettably. Some waywards won't change. But you already know this. It is hard not to want to be able to trust our partner again. But if they don't/won't do the hard work, the chance for successful R is pretty slim.

Welcome back. What I am more sorry, is, that you needed to come back. Good luck moving forward.

2 boys-20 & 23(special needs)
Married 24yrs.(together 30yrs.)

All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary Puckett
D-Day(s): Plenty
Accepting that I can may end this marriage 7/2/14
Heading for D

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