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User Topic: Arrgh ... worst movie ever.
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Default  Posted: 5:18 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, XH works in movies. Been having a rough, triggery week. Just got home from work, flip on tube. Movie that's on (last channel that was on before I left) is the one where XH started A w/slunty OW. What a kick in the fucking ovaries.

I watched 5 minutes of it, thinking, great job XH building that set. Followed by: OW did a decent job dressing it. Shoot me in the frigging face. I hate my fucking life right now.

Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now: happy in life, happily in love with the RIGHT man -----> Everything is as it should be

Posts: 940 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: The Hostile City
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Default  Posted: 6:36 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No tv for you tonight. I am sorry. Stay strong

"respect? you don't deserve it, you won't get any from me unless you earn it"

Posts: 1028 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well. That's the first time an accountants wife ever thought she was lucky to have married an accountant.

Geez. I thought realising how prevalent and pedestrian affairs are in movies I used to love but now can't watch was hard.

That is so shit.

Its the iPod that tried to kill me. I couldn't listen to the radio either. I had my iPod set to random and I swear 5 songs in a row started playing that were massive triggers (one was his hobby band's album, another was the bloody wedding song!). Each time I punched the next button I cursed - by the 5th song I was crying and cackling hysterically whilst cursing the universe. This has happened with the radio more times than I can count.

In that laughter I saw the funny side of where I was at. I knew at that moment that I'd be OK. And I am. You will be too.


[This message edited by SBB at 7:26 AM, December 30th (Monday)]

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 6008 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh that is awful!! I have been cursed by music lately. I don't know if its the holidays or what, but every damn song makes me cry it seems!!

I am sorry you were triggered. That feeling is horrible.

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Posts: 3870 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just hate stuff like that. At first I had to avoid pretty much all music and movies. SBB is so right- affairs are casually thrown about in so many movies and tv shows! It's just sad.

Sorry you got that slap in the face today. I know how much it hurts.

Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords

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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((vulcanized))) I'm so sorry. That's a hell of a trigger.

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Divorced after an eternity
"So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tenn

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