That is exactly what he wants. He wants to go to his dad's and say you threw him out.
This is what I agree with.
Also, at least w/ my WH, he wants to hear me say I want to stay w/ him and I want the relationship. So if he says "You want me to go" he wants to hear "noooo I wanna work on this etc etc". However, my answer is "yes, I want you to go" But he won't leave so now I'm going to have to.