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User Topic: Feeling like a brand new baby!
dreamlife
♀ 8142
Member # 8142
Cool  Posted: 12:51 AM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do not recall feeling this way with my first D of many years ago and we are still very close friends, have a grown DD, etc.

With this D...I am on a huge roller coaster!
Is this "normal"?

Sometimes I feel crazy-rotten & other times like this brand new being and so happy I could...

Anyone else feel this way?

Is there a post D "roller coaster"?

Thanks!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25435 | Registered: Sep 2005
sparkysable
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Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been 3 years, and I still don't feel right.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3477 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
imwideawake
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Member # 23386
Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's 3 yrs since dday and 1 since divorce. I'm feeling like myself again. There was a roller coaster through all this, but it's leveling off now. So glad I made it.


Together 21 years.
Married 19
Me: BW, now 45
Him XWH
dday 9/08
3 daughters, now 20, 19, & 16
Divorced 12/04/12

Posts: 905 | Registered: Mar 2009
dreamlife
♀ 8142
Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

3 years, wow!

I feel like I don't have TIME.

Speaking of which:

One Day at a time!

Thanks for responding and giving me perspective.


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25435 | Registered: Sep 2005
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