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Divorce/Separation :
Feeling like a brand new baby!

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 dreamlife (original poster member #8142) posted at 6:51 AM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

I do not recall feeling this way with my first D of many years ago and we are still very close friends, have a grown DD, etc.

With this D...I am on a huge roller coaster!

Is this "normal"?

Sometimes I feel crazy-rotten & other times like this brand new being and so happy I could...

Anyone else feel this way?

Is there a post D "roller coaster"?

Thanks!

~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)

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sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 7:07 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

It's been 3 years, and I still don't feel right.

D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

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imwideawake ( member #23386) posted at 7:47 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

It's 3 yrs since dday and 1 since divorce. I'm feeling like myself again. There was a roller coaster through all this, but it's leveling off now. So glad I made it.

Together 21 years.
Married 19
Me: BW
Him XWH
dday 9/08
3 daughters, now grown
Divorced 12/04/12

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 dreamlife (original poster member #8142) posted at 8:20 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

3 years, wow!

I feel like I don't have TIME.

Speaking of which:

One Day at a time!

Thanks for responding and giving me perspective.

~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)

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