I haven't been here in a long time and have been working on my issues. I have posted an update on my profile for anyone interested. I am also posting this in ICR - Parents Who Had Affairs.
I am grateful for the members of SI who gave me such a wonderful response when I came here two years ago. I took their advice to heart and have finally had a significant break through as to why I was unfaithful.
For that I will be forever grateful to this site.
Wishing everyone a wonderful 2014 with much healing and happiness to all.