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Morhurt posted 1/2/2014 10:48 AM

My husband's twin sister died in an avalanche. It was and still is heart breaking. They were best friends. They were only 23 years old. He and I were traveling separately (not married, taking a break from dating) but I rushed home to be with him.

This is the first year that he has let himself feel. All those years I thought I was helping him by allowing him the space to either express or repress his feelings. I thought I was doing the best thing for him by respecting his grief and never pushing him. I don't blame myself but I do wish I had known that helping him talk about his sadness and loss would have been more healing.

Anyway, here we are at this sad day. My poor H has to work, the snow is falling and so are our tears. Thankfully he has an IC appt booked.

I have no "question", I just needed to share.

Beemer posted 1/2/2014 10:57 AM

My prayers are with you and your family

(((Morhurt & Mr. Morhurt)))

forgivingnow posted 1/2/2014 15:35 PM

I am so sorry.

jo2love posted 1/2/2014 15:40 PM

(((Morhurt & H)))

looking forward posted 1/2/2014 15:42 PM

My prayers are extended to you and your H.
I, too, am a twin, and I can empathize so much.
Take care.
Best wishes for healing from this devastating loss.

slide095 posted 1/2/2014 18:01 PM

How awful, what a terrible way to lose someone. :( I'm so sorry for you both. Hopefully the IC will be helpful.

Williesmom posted 1/2/2014 18:05 PM

I'm sorry. That is awful.

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