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User Topic: Wh showing he really cares
ohiocarrie535
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Member # 39709
Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I stopped by WH work yesterday. Walked in to find him on the phone and FOW standing right beside him ( they work together...yippie! ) anyway, she scurried off when she saw me. H ended his call and walked me out, he was busy with a medical emergency. He asked if I was ok and I said yes. But as I drove home I could myself trying to trigger, and I fought it with positive mental images. It helped some. H texted me and then called me ( with he rarely does ) to reassure me. Even in the middle of the crisis he had going on at work. He would have never thought to do that before! I made sure to tell him how much it meant to me. We are just beginning affair season, and I have warned him ahead of time how I would need him to help me through it. I guess he listened!

Posts: 84 | Registered: Jun 2013
phoenixrise
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Member # 41745
Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A positive story is so nice to hear... Im happy for you that he was so supportive. My WH has also texts or calls me something he had never done before and I have to admit it feels nice...good job with the positive thinking...all those negative thoughts and triggers can be dangerous...you kind of have to flip things around to positive right away on a dime when you choose to reconcile...it's painful but it can do wonders for bot


"The grass is greener on the other side because of all the shit that is used to fertilize it"
Him: WH after 8 yrs M...wow to think he held my hand during labor twice
Me: thought I was a cool loving wife
D Day: 7 mos ago RIP soul

Posts: 213 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Dante's Inferno
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really glad he's making the extra effort. You are amazing to have not picked up a chair and hucked it.

(((ohiocarrie535)))


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18690 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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