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Topic: It's here - first anniversary of DDay!

UKlady
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Member # 39058

Posted: 3:18 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014

Please wish me luck all you lovely people - don't know what I would have done without you this year

Wishing us all peace, courage and strength - we will get through this!

Me: BW 45
Him: WH 48
Married: 6 years, together 9 years
D-day: 3 January 2013 - he confessed.
A: June-Dec 2012
No children.

Posts: 153 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: UK

karmahappens
♀ 35846
Member # 35846

Posted: 3:50 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014

You have made it through the first year...ALL the damn "firsts" are over.

You can get through today. Do what makes you happy.

It's the first dday but think of how far you have come in that year.

(((hugs)))

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3894 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts

UKlady
♀ 39058
Member # 39058

Posted: 11:13 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014

Thank you for replying Karma. I guess I'm just living the day really. We spent most of the day baby sitting which is always good for keeping your mind off things. Been grocery shopping and now back home for a cosy evening in (bad rain and gales here in uk). I still feel I want to revisit the whole DDay events but don't know if it's really healthy or will help!

Me: BW 45
Him: WH 48
Married: 6 years, together 9 years
D-day: 3 January 2013 - he confessed.
A: June-Dec 2012
No children.

Posts: 153 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: UK

forgivingnow
♀ 33549
Member # 33549

Posted: 2:58 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014

"Think of how far you have come"
THIS !!!!
One year after our dday, we didn't do anything special, but I told my husband I was sad & anxious thinking about that dday and he said we have rediscovered how great we are together.
So, don't relive it today, you can talk about it on another day, be positive

What do you want in this new year?

Me-BS 51
FWH-51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

Posts: 642 | Registered: Oct 2011

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