He sent a text, which I received the next morning, asking if I've "punished" him enough yet. He still does not get it. I responded that I meant it when I told him to never contact me again, and that if his wife continued her harassment, cyberstalking, and online impersonation of me that they would both be hearing from my lawyer and the authorities. He had the nerve to write me back, asking why I "hate" him, and not commenting or inquiring at all about his wife's psycho behavior. I didn't respond, blocked his number again and hope he really gets it now. He is a selfish, immature child, and I feel all the more foolish/regretful for having betrayed my husband with him.
I would never do it, but a part of me wants to tell his wife that two years after D-Day he is still contacting me and that I have refused to engage with him. In her deluded little psycho mind, I am some predator who seduced her husband in one "weak moment" and have basically made a second career out of "breaking up families" (the quotes are hers, taken from her online posts). I also think she expected more drama when she told my husband, maybe even expected him to commiserate with her, and when he chose to handle it privately it set her off. She even claims (online) that my BS still doesn't know about the affair.
And yes, I am fully aware that I did a horrible thing by engaging in an affair, and that I "injected" myself into her marriage. But, her husband also "injected" himself into my marriage, and you don't see MY spouse throwing fifth grade-style tantrums on social media. Especially not TWO YEARS later.
Sorry, vent over. I am not the same person I was when I had the affair, and I really just want to move on.
[This message edited by AchillesHealed at 10:20 AM, January 3rd (Friday)]