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Topic: Another angel baby
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Aubrie
♀ 33886
Member # 33886 |  Posted: 9:32 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 |     |
If you could whisper a prayer for my sister I would appreciate it.
She's in the process of losing her third baby in a year. 
Life is so unfair. 
This is the hall of mirrors. Where you will face yourself. Buckle up.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Posts: 7909 | Registered: Nov 2011 |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 |  Posted: 9:35 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
Keeping your sister in prayer.
Posts: 54405 | Registered: Jun 2007 |
betrayedfriend
♀ 19785
Member # 19785 | | Posted: 9:45 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
I am so sorry, your sister is in my prayers. Has she considered testing to see why this is happening? I've lost 4 babies and while testing didn't lead to any concrete answers, it revealed some possibilities. Please let your sister know that it's ok to grieve and breathe, this child is a very real part of her.
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Posts: 1018 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA |
Gottagetthrough
27325
Member # 27325 | | Posted: 9:50 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
Please let your sister know that it's ok to grieve and breathe, this child is a very real part of her.
so true.
Praying for your sister. I am so very sorry.
Posts: 2404 | Registered: Jan 2010 |
cass
♀ 24261
Member # 24261 | | Posted: 9:50 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
((((Aubrie's sister and angel baby))))
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
Posts: 5132 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Scotland |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 9:50 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm sorry.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 9126 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
gonnabe2016
♀ 34823
Member # 34823 | | Posted: 9:53 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm so sorry.....
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 9187 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest |
Aubrie
♀ 33886
Member # 33886 | | Posted: 10:17 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm so angry.
Why her? Why did she have to inherit the fertility issues? Times like this I feel incredible guilt over the fact QS can just look at me and I get pregnant. That I didn't have complications carrying my babies. That we're "done" and he's been snipped. Guilt because I've always been held over her head. She feels she'll never be "as good" as me. (Thank you FOO)
And Mother, because of her lousy choices, is not a part of this process. My sister doesn't feel exactly safe or stable enough to call and "chat" with her about it all. So it's just me and my sister, working thru this together.
Oh Little Sister, my heart bleeds for you.
This is the hall of mirrors. Where you will face yourself. Buckle up.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Posts: 7909 | Registered: Nov 2011 |
Crescita
♀ 32616
Member # 32616 | | Posted: 10:24 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
So sorry
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Posts: 3640 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 10:30 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
(((((sister, husband, and angel baby)))))
I'm so sorry, Aubrie.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40124 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
ajsmom
♀ 17460
Member # 17460 | | Posted: 10:33 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
So very sad.
(((Aubrie & Sis)))
Sending prayers.
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Posts: 21377 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back |
gahurts
♂ 33699
Member # 33699 | | Posted: 10:37 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm very sorry for your sister's loss Aubrie. I will keep her in my prayers.
I know what you mean. I had 5 kids without any trouble whatsoever but my one brother had to use IVF to get his beautiful daughters and my other brother's wife couldn't even get pregnant with IVF - 3 failed pregnancies. It just doesn't make sense and is not fair at all.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Posts: 3986 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 11:56 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
(((Aubrie, Aubrie's sister, and family)))
I am so sorry. Sending hugs and prayers.
Posts: 50172 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
itainteasy
♀ 31094
Member # 31094 | | Posted: 12:25 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
Prayers sent...I'm so sorry for your sister, Aubrie.
Posts: 3446 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA |
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148 | | Posted: 12:33 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
I am so sorry. Prayers being said.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Posts: 4500 | Registered: Jan 2010 |
tryingagain74
♀ 33698
Member # 33698 | | Posted: 1:35 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
Sending strength and positive thoughts to you both during this difficult time.
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 4079 | Registered: Oct 2011 |
Aubrie
♀ 33886
Member # 33886 | | Posted: 1:42 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
Thank you everyone.
We're in the waiting stage. She's passing fluid but that's the extent of it. She can't get in with her doctor till Tuesday.
*sigh*
This is the hall of mirrors. Where you will face yourself. Buckle up.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Posts: 7909 | Registered: Nov 2011 |
booger bear
♀ 26584
Member # 26584 | | Posted: 1:48 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.
She couldn't keep her colors inside the lines. So, she drew new lines.
Posts: 19090 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Where's the fucking rainbow ??? |
stroppy_wanadoo
♀ 11224
Member # 11224 | | Posted: 2:15 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
Prayers for your sister and for you, Aubrie.
Posts: 1150 | Registered: Jul 2006 |
Teach8
♀ 36521
Member # 36521 | | Posted: 2:21 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
(((Aubrie's sister and family))). Sending strength and prayers. I'm so very sorry. I do know the pain she is feeling.
Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R
Posts: 591 | Registered: Aug 2012 |
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