Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying



Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library


Contact Us
In Association with
Infidelity -
- Forum Archives

like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
Newest Member: terriblysorry (61534)

User Topic: Reading suggestions and other helpful suggestions?
♀ 41015
Member # 41015
Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, January 4th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't find a post about book suggestions now so I thought I would make my own. What are the books that have helped you the most? I am reading "How to help heal your spouse from your affair" and also "Getting the love you want". I have downloaded but not started "His needs, her needs". So far I have gotten the most by far from "how to help heal your spouse from your affair" and I'm wondering if there are others like it that could possibly help me and also help me to help my BH. I am desperately seeking guidance through this. It's been 8 months and although I feel we've made some progress he is still in limbo dealing with the mind movies and the never ending haunting thoughts of my affair. I hate what I have done to him, our children, myself and our lives. I have destroyed everything and I will stop at nothing to pick up the pieces of what I have blown up and do anything I can to save my family. I regret the insane selfish decisions and choices I made. I will not ever be that person again. We have been seeing a therapist but as Uhtred, my BH, brought to light for me it might be time to see someone that specializes in infidelity and marriage counseling.
I will do more starting today.

Him BS-32
Me WS-33
Two beautiful boys 6 & 3
D-day April 29, 2013

Posts: 24 | Registered: Oct 2013
♂ 25460
Member # 25460
Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, January 4th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello Ihtoiltm

There is a list of books at

there is also a list of helpful reading at

Wisdom from Gamine - Make a decision and discipline yourself not to waver. Don't be someone who stands for nothing. Stand for what you decide and back it with the full force of your character and conviction. DECIDE. CHOOSE. COMMIT. PERIOD.

Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3306 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
♀ 34755
Member # 34755
Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, January 4th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please toss his needs, her needs. Harley is horrible.

BS - Me
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking

Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
Topic Posts: 3

Return to Forum This Topic is Archived
© 2002 - 2017 All Rights Reserved.