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Helen of Troy posted 1/5/2014 09:24 AM

He says I threw out stuff from the basement that he is going to charge me for and has his lawyer on it right now. These were moldy or broken loveseats that he pulled from curb recycling when students were leaving town for the summer. They got even more rotten from being in a non climate controlled area. None of this stuff was high value at all! most of it broken that he would "someday fix" and use.
I swear this man is such a bully. I wish he would go play in traffic!

Chrysalis123 posted 1/5/2014 09:31 AM

He can say anything he wants, doesn't make it true.

NPD-x has threatened me with lawsuits for years. And I have never once received anything from the courts.

Carry on living and try not to let this big bully take up any space in your brain. If you get something from the courts, in my state, you have 21 days to respond......so you will have lots of time.

((Helen)))

Softcentre posted 1/5/2014 10:42 AM

He can't sue you for something that didn't cost him anything and that he salvaged because it has no monetary value/loss to him

[This message edited by Softcentre at 10:42 AM, January 5th (Sunday)]

Kelany posted 1/5/2014 11:03 AM

Honey, let's look at the facts here.

A. the items had no value since he got them from the trash essentially.
B. he didn't take them when he came and took the other stuff he wanted.
C. The remaining property in the marital home then became under your ownership.
D. He has no proof you threw them away.

Seriously, what judge would side with him? If he wants to waste his money over this, tell him to go for it. There is no way he can even prove the value of the items.

He is trying to intimidate you. PLEASE go NC with him. Tell him unless it is about your CHILD or Money, you will not respond. Then DON'T.

BAB61 posted 1/5/2014 12:09 PM

I wish he would go play in traffic!
Oh my God YES, YES, YES!!

What SamanthaBaker said:

He is trying to intimidate you. PLEASE go NC with him. Tell him unless it is about your CHILD or Money, you will not respond. Then DON'T.
Again .. yes!!

Kelany posted 1/5/2014 12:15 PM

I know it's not funny to you HoT, but I'm chuckling at the thought of him filing a police report on you. Seriously. For the other furniture or for this. Can you imagine what the responding officer would think? Or say?

I say we turn this thread around and think of all the possible scenarios of how this would REALLY play out vs. his fantasy land scenario.

LoveHerStill posted 1/5/2014 16:15 PM

This is what loss of control does to control freaks! It sticks in their craw and they ruminate on it until they come up with some ridiculous scheme to gain the upper hand. It really only spotlights their obsessive need for control. It is simply folly on their part.

Do not fret a single moment longer about this. No judge, or lawyer would entertain such a lawsuit for a moment.

He is simply grasping at straws.

He is struggling with his own consequences.

The right move here is, as usual, to unleash an army of crickets on his pitiful ass.

PhoenixRising88 posted 1/5/2014 16:47 PM

I swear this man is such a bully. I wish he would go play in traffic!

Send his ass to texas. after driving in the ice we had down here my car's out of alignment. Maybe running him over for you would bump it back in.

Two birds. One stone. Just sayin'.

[This message edited by PhoenixRising88 at 5:18 PM, January 5th (Sunday)]

lifestoshort posted 1/5/2014 21:00 PM

ignore it all. let him talk to his lawyer for hrs venting. it will cost him a bunch and you nothing. I believe he needs receipts for you to have to pay half of anything

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