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littlefoggy (original poster member #41429) posted at 3:43 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
Scumbag drug dealer across the street is nicer to me than STBXWH.
Maybe it is all the police activity at my house.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
littlefoggy (original poster member #41429) posted at 4:03 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
And now I am all sad.
Scumbag drug dealer is the only person in my neighborhood who has said anything to me.
It is pretty obvious Douchey McDoucherson moved out.
How depressing.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 4:03 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
Whoa, what's with all the police activity?
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:32 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
littlefoggy (original poster member #41429) posted at 4:35 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
Early on, he came back after I kicked him out unannounced I told him to leave and refused to go.
Then we got into a fight (yelling, DD not present) and a neighbor called on us. Or so STBX said. I was already gone. I think he called after I left as leverage.
Then he broke down my locked bedroom door while "housesitting" so I made a police report.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 4:37 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
careerlady ( member #16958) posted at 5:03 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
(((Littlefoggy)))
Sorry you are going through this. The other neighbors may not be as aware as you think or may not know what to say
Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI
justjim ( member #41150) posted at 5:45 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
We used to be pretty tight with all of our neighbors. When she walked out, several of them asked if she was OK, they noticed her gone and thought she might have had a family emergency or something. I told them she was gone, and why.
Now my neighbors avoid me. They barely wave when I am outside with the dog. Are they uncomfortable and don't know what to say to me, or are they choosing sides, I wonder.
Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 5:58 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
whoa, that does suck ... smh, people suck
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 6:48 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
littlefoggy (original poster member #41429) posted at 7:23 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
Cautiously...
He said if I ever needed anything, let him know.
So I asked him to keep an eye on the house (he is used to keeping a wary eye out). And if the shit hit the fan here, if I could come over (he is usually home).
He was nice. And I actually feel much safer knowing I have a place close by to go that I can run to without fussing with a carseat. Maybe I am overly cautious.
I am not going to be asking him to babysit. Or housesit. Or giving him a spare key.
I feel like a big tough bad boy in my corner might not be so bad. Especially since STBX seems to be acting rather unpredictably.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
badmedicine ( member #41692) posted at 9:54 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
Um, isn't this guy a DRUG DEALER? Just be careful, please. Especially with DD. There are ways a girl can protect herself.
"The wishbone will never replace the backbone." -Will Henry
"This wasn't just plain terrible, this was fancy terrible. This was terrible with raisins in it." -Dorothy Parker
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 10:37 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014
Safe can be a relative term. Says at lot about STBXH when the neighborhood dope peddler looks like a nice guy.
((hugs))
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
littlefoggy (original poster member #41429) posted at 12:56 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014
He isn't slinging meth.
And talking to him, isn't actively slinging anything.
He has a kid DD's age.
Like I said. I am approaching this cautiously. But I am not shooting down friends when I get them.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
Mousse242 ( member #6330) posted at 1:29 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014
Stay away from the drug dealer, it will bite you in the ass during custody.
littlefoggy (original poster member #41429) posted at 1:44 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014
Stay away from the drug dealer, it will bite you in the ass during custody.
Bingo.
Primary concern.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
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