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littlefoggy
♀ 41429
Member # 41429 |  Posted: 9:43 AM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 |     |
Scumbag drug dealer across the street is nicer to me than STBXWH.
Maybe it is all the police activity at my house.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
Posts: 505 | Registered: Nov 2013 |
littlefoggy
♀ 41429
Member # 41429 | | Posted: 10:03 AM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
And now I am all sad.
Scumbag drug dealer is the only person in my neighborhood who has said anything to me.
It is pretty obvious Douchey McDoucherson moved out.
How depressing.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
Posts: 505 | Registered: Nov 2013 |
BAB61
♀ 41181
Member # 41181 | | Posted: 10:03 AM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Whoa, what's with all the police activity?
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 10:32 AM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((littlefoggy)))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 37362 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
littlefoggy
♀ 41429
Member # 41429 | | Posted: 10:35 AM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Early on, he came back after I kicked him out unannounced I told him to leave and refused to go.
Then we got into a fight (yelling, DD not present) and a neighbor called on us. Or so STBX said. I was already gone. I think he called after I left as leverage.
Then he broke down my locked bedroom door while "housesitting" so I made a police report.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
Posts: 505 | Registered: Nov 2013 |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 10:37 AM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((littlefoggy)))
Posts: 46393 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
careerlady
♀ 16958
Member # 16958 | | Posted: 11:03 AM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((Littlefoggy)))
Sorry you are going through this. The other neighbors may not be as aware as you think or may not know what to say
Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI
Posts: 949 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California |
justjim
♂ 41150
Member # 41150 | | Posted: 11:45 AM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
We used to be pretty tight with all of our neighbors. When she walked out, several of them asked if she was OK, they noticed her gone and thought she might have had a family emergency or something. I told them she was gone, and why.
Now my neighbors avoid me. They barely wave when I am outside with the dog. Are they uncomfortable and don't know what to say to me, or are they choosing sides, I wonder.
Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.
Posts: 294 | Registered: Oct 2013 |
BAB61
♀ 41181
Member # 41181 | | Posted: 11:58 AM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
whoa, that does suck ... smh, people suck
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE |
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148 | | Posted: 12:48 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((Littlefoggy)))
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Posts: 3899 | Registered: Jan 2010 |
littlefoggy
♀ 41429
Member # 41429 | | Posted: 1:23 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Cautiously...
He said if I ever needed anything, let him know.
So I asked him to keep an eye on the house (he is used to keeping a wary eye out). And if the shit hit the fan here, if I could come over (he is usually home).
He was nice. And I actually feel much safer knowing I have a place close by to go that I can run to without fussing with a carseat. Maybe I am overly cautious.
I am not going to be asking him to babysit. Or housesit. Or giving him a spare key.
I feel like a big tough bad boy in my corner might not be so bad. Especially since STBX seems to be acting rather unpredictably.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
Posts: 505 | Registered: Nov 2013 |
badmedicine
♀ 41692
Member # 41692 | | Posted: 3:54 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Um, isn't this guy a DRUG DEALER? Just be careful, please. Especially with DD. There are ways a girl can protect herself.
"The wishbone will never replace the backbone." -Will Henry
"This wasn't just plain terrible, this was fancy terrible. This was terrible with raisins in it." -Dorothy Parker
Posts: 211 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States |
Gemini71
♀ 40115
Member # 40115 | | Posted: 4:37 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Safe can be a relative term. Says at lot about STBXH when the neighborhood dope peddler looks like a nice guy.
((hugs))
"Better not give in to it. It takes ten times as long to put yourself back together as it does to fall apart.”
― Suzanne Collins, Mockingjay
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
Posts: 3239 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA |
littlefoggy
♀ 41429
Member # 41429 | | Posted: 6:56 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
He isn't slinging meth.
And talking to him, isn't actively slinging anything.
He has a kid DD's age.
Like I said. I am approaching this cautiously. But I am not shooting down friends when I get them.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
Posts: 505 | Registered: Nov 2013 |
Mousse242
♀ 6330
Member # 6330 | | Posted: 7:29 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Stay away from the drug dealer, it will bite you in the ass during custody.
Posts: 5485 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: Chicago |
littlefoggy
♀ 41429
Member # 41429 | | Posted: 7:44 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Stay away from the drug dealer, it will bite you in the ass during custody.
Bingo.
Primary concern.
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
Posts: 505 | Registered: Nov 2013 |
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