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littlefoggy posted 1/5/2014 09:43 AM

Scumbag drug dealer across the street is nicer to me than STBXWH.

Maybe it is all the police activity at my house.

littlefoggy posted 1/5/2014 10:03 AM

And now I am all sad.

Scumbag drug dealer is the only person in my neighborhood who has said anything to me.

It is pretty obvious Douchey McDoucherson moved out.

How depressing.

BAB61 posted 1/5/2014 10:03 AM

Whoa, what's with all the police activity?

nowiknow23 posted 1/5/2014 10:32 AM

(((littlefoggy)))

littlefoggy posted 1/5/2014 10:35 AM

Early on, he came back after I kicked him out unannounced I told him to leave and refused to go.

Then we got into a fight (yelling, DD not present) and a neighbor called on us. Or so STBX said. I was already gone. I think he called after I left as leverage.

Then he broke down my locked bedroom door while "housesitting" so I made a police report.

jo2love posted 1/5/2014 10:37 AM

(((littlefoggy)))

careerlady posted 1/5/2014 11:03 AM

(((Littlefoggy)))
Sorry you are going through this. The other neighbors may not be as aware as you think or may not know what to say

justjim posted 1/5/2014 11:45 AM

We used to be pretty tight with all of our neighbors. When she walked out, several of them asked if she was OK, they noticed her gone and thought she might have had a family emergency or something. I told them she was gone, and why.

Now my neighbors avoid me. They barely wave when I am outside with the dog. Are they uncomfortable and don't know what to say to me, or are they choosing sides, I wonder.

BAB61 posted 1/5/2014 11:58 AM

whoa, that does suck ... smh, people suck

Chrysalis123 posted 1/5/2014 12:48 PM

(((Littlefoggy)))

littlefoggy posted 1/5/2014 13:23 PM

Cautiously...

He said if I ever needed anything, let him know.

So I asked him to keep an eye on the house (he is used to keeping a wary eye out). And if the shit hit the fan here, if I could come over (he is usually home).

He was nice. And I actually feel much safer knowing I have a place close by to go that I can run to without fussing with a carseat. Maybe I am overly cautious.

I am not going to be asking him to babysit. Or housesit. Or giving him a spare key.

I feel like a big tough bad boy in my corner might not be so bad. Especially since STBX seems to be acting rather unpredictably.

badmedicine posted 1/5/2014 15:54 PM

Um, isn't this guy a DRUG DEALER? Just be careful, please. Especially with DD. There are ways a girl can protect herself.

Gemini71 posted 1/5/2014 16:37 PM

Safe can be a relative term. Says at lot about STBXH when the neighborhood dope peddler looks like a nice guy.

((hugs))

littlefoggy posted 1/5/2014 18:56 PM

He isn't slinging meth.

And talking to him, isn't actively slinging anything.

He has a kid DD's age.

Like I said. I am approaching this cautiously. But I am not shooting down friends when I get them.

Mousse242 posted 1/5/2014 19:29 PM

Stay away from the drug dealer, it will bite you in the ass during custody.

littlefoggy posted 1/5/2014 19:44 PM

Stay away from the drug dealer, it will bite you in the ass during custody.

Bingo.

Primary concern.