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User Topic: gender neutral: an apology
unfound
♀ 12802
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

alternate title: I'm a doofus

alternate alternate title: MH goes to all the trouble to put the little specific sex thing/symbols signs on profiles, and unfound still mixes up peoples genders.

Just realized that a member of over 4 years here is a boy . And it's not just him, it's loads of people. Sometimes I look closer and think "shit, when did that happen?" .

I guess I just see everyone as gender neutral unless their name is obviously male or female.

My apologies to anyone whom I have thought was a boy, or a girl (or Canadian) and you're not... . you know what I mean.

sigh.

[This message edited by unfound at 7:37 PM, January 5th (Sunday)]


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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looking forward
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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

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unfound
♀ 12802
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

lf, edited to add


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(or Canadian)

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've done this too!!!!


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


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unfound
♀ 12802
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

unagie, wth? you're a funny lady (? )


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14876 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't worry unfound, you're just one if the guys


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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unfound
♀ 12802
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am?? now I'm really confused


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14876 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There is one particular member who I've always thought was a girl... until I saw the little gender thingie when MH put them on...

Oops.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yeah, I've done the same thing!

We opened a card from the card exchange, it was signed:
username
and underneath:
a very manly name, so obviously NOT a woman

and I shouted username is a dude??? But.... I... really...? a dude....


FWS me 37 (recovering addict)
BS him 40 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


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unfound
♀ 12802
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Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

broevil, you and chicho are probably on the top of my apology list

In my mind:

chicho = chick
broevil = bro

*head exploding*


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14876 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!

It's totally understandable! BRO = dude.

I've wondered if people think I'm a guy... Now i know


FWS me 37 (recovering addict)
BS him 40 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(or Canadian)

At least being mistaken as Canadian is a good thing. Canadian's are usually very nice people


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/34 The kidlets: DS14, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lmao this thread is awesome. I made the same mistake at first Broevil and Truly Reconciled....I thought you were a girl for awhile until I read that bra store thread.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I made the same mistake at first Broevil and Truly Reconciled....I thought you were a girl for awhile until I read that bra store thread.

I had an operation ....


It's OK Unagie - I thought you were an eel

[This message edited by TrulyReconciled at 9:52 AM, January 6th (Monday)]


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's OK Unagie - I thought you were an eel

Every time I see a post of Unagie's, I get hungry!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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ItHappened2Me2
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE this thread! Thanks for the laughs! Needed them today!


BS - me (52); WS - him (52)
DD 15yo, DS 11 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013 - he started up again with the

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's OK Unagie - I thought you were an eel
Every time I see a post of Unagie's, I get hungry!

Oh you guys!! Lmao


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Everytime I see Unagie's name, I think of Ross from Friends.

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