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User Topic: gender neutral: an apology
unfound
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

alternate title: I'm a doofus

alternate alternate title: MH goes to all the trouble to put the little specific sex thing/symbols signs on profiles, and unfound still mixes up peoples genders.

Just realized that a member of over 4 years here is a boy . And it's not just him, it's loads of people. Sometimes I look closer and think "shit, when did that happen?" .

I guess I just see everyone as gender neutral unless their name is obviously male or female.

My apologies to anyone whom I have thought was a boy, or a girl (or Canadian) and you're not... . you know what I mean.

sigh.

[This message edited by unfound at 7:37 PM, January 5th (Sunday)]


ka-mai
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looking forward
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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
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♀ 12802
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

lf, edited to add


ka-mai
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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(or Canadian)

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage




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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've done this too!!!!


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unfound
♀ 12802
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

unagie, wth? you're a funny lady (? )


ka-mai
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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't worry unfound, you're just one if the guys


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♀ 12802
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am?? now I'm really confused


ka-mai
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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There is one particular member who I've always thought was a girl... until I saw the little gender thingie when MH put them on...

Oops.


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DS - 14
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SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yeah, I've done the same thing!

We opened a card from the card exchange, it was signed:
username
and underneath:
a very manly name, so obviously NOT a woman

and I shouted username is a dude??? But.... I... really...? a dude....


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Together 8 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


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unfound
♀ 12802
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Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

broevil, you and chicho are probably on the top of my apology list

In my mind:

chicho = chick
broevil = bro

*head exploding*


ka-mai
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!

It's totally understandable! BRO = dude.

I've wondered if people think I'm a guy... Now i know


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Together 8 years
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"Your secrets keep you sick"


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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(or Canadian)

At least being mistaken as Canadian is a good thing. Canadian's are usually very nice people


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lmao this thread is awesome. I made the same mistake at first Broevil and Truly Reconciled....I thought you were a girl for awhile until I read that bra store thread.




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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I made the same mistake at first Broevil and Truly Reconciled....I thought you were a girl for awhile until I read that bra store thread.

I had an operation ....


It's OK Unagie - I thought you were an eel

[This message edited by TrulyReconciled at 9:52 AM, January 6th (Monday)]


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's OK Unagie - I thought you were an eel

Every time I see a post of Unagie's, I get hungry!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

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ItHappened2Me2
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE this thread! Thanks for the laughs! Needed them today!


BS - me (53 now); WS - him (53 now)
DD 17yo, DS 13 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
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DIVORCED!!!! and doing well

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's OK Unagie - I thought you were an eel
Every time I see a post of Unagie's, I get hungry!

Oh you guys!! Lmao




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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Everytime I see Unagie's name, I think of Ross from Friends.

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