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sinnomore posted 1/5/2014 21:34 PM

This am I asked bh a question which was this:

Do you consider us still in the process of reconciling or do you consider us reconciled?

He said reconciled! He also said maybe it was still in process, but felt that it was actually reconciled even though he still has "moments".

I thanked him and realized I had tears of joy in my eyes. I know we are still working on us, and am grateful for his willingness to work it out with me.

Happy New Year!

Brandon808 posted 1/5/2014 21:36 PM

Thanks for sharing this positive news.

Aubrie posted 1/5/2014 21:41 PM

helplessme posted 1/5/2014 23:17 PM

sinnomore,

Happy for you!

How long has it been for you from DDay?

sinnomore posted 1/6/2014 00:06 AM

Helplessme,

Thank you:)

Dday was just about 3.5 years ago. It's been a long road, and we both know there may be some challenges ahead however; we are still here together with our family intact.

helplessme posted 1/6/2014 00:19 AM

That is a great encouragement sinnomore! Gives hope to all of us here

Prayingforhope posted 1/6/2014 04:13 AM

Big time hope booster. Thanks for sharing...

Also continues to reinforce my need for patience...this is not about days or months, it's about months and years. (I have to remind myself daily of this, since I'm a newbie to destroying my family and wife).

authenticnow posted 1/6/2014 05:14 AM

That's awesome !

Skan posted 1/6/2014 22:21 PM

I'm so happy for the two of you.

RegretfulHusband posted 1/6/2014 22:29 PM

Thanks for sharing this sinnomore.

It gives me hope for myself.

nowiknow23 posted 1/6/2014 22:29 PM

So pleased for you both.