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Topic: Asked BH a Q
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sinnomore
♀ 36800
Member # 36800 |  Posted: 9:34 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 |     |
This am I asked bh a question which was this:
Do you consider us still in the process of reconciling or do you consider us reconciled?
He said reconciled! He also said maybe it was still in process, but felt that it was actually reconciled even though he still has "moments".
I thanked him and realized I had tears of joy in my eyes. I know we are still working on us, and am grateful for his willingness to work it out with me.
Happy New Year!
Me - WW-40's
Him - BS-40's
Married 20 years, together 24
Posts: 28 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: USA |
Brandon808
♂ 35619
Member # 35619 |  Posted: 9:36 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Thanks for sharing this positive news.
Posts: 4634 | Registered: May 2012 |
Aubrie
♀ 33886
Member # 33886 | | Posted: 9:41 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
This is the hall of mirrors. Where you will face yourself. Buckle up.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Posts: 7890 | Registered: Nov 2011 |
helplessme
♀ 41598
Member # 41598 | | Posted: 11:17 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
sinnomore,
Happy for you! 
How long has it been for you from DDay?
Posts: 69 | Registered: Dec 2013 |
sinnomore
♀ 36800
Member # 36800 | | Posted: 12:06 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014 | |
Helplessme,
Thank you:)
Dday was just about 3.5 years ago. It's been a long road, and we both know there may be some challenges ahead however; we are still here together with our family intact.
Me - WW-40's
Him - BS-40's
Married 20 years, together 24
Posts: 28 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: USA |
helplessme
♀ 41598
Member # 41598 | | Posted: 12:19 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014 | |
That is a great encouragement sinnomore! Gives hope to all of us here
Posts: 69 | Registered: Dec 2013 |
Prayingforhope
♂ 41801
Member # 41801 | | Posted: 4:13 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014 | |
Big time hope booster. Thanks for sharing...
Also continues to reinforce my need for patience...this is not about days or months, it's about months and years. (I have to remind myself daily of this, since I'm a newbie to destroying my family and wife).
WH 41
BS 40
D-Day Oct 28th, 2013
Together 18 years
Three amazing boys 12, 9 & 6
Praying for hope daily
Posts: 260 | Registered: Dec 2013 |
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 | | Posted: 5:14 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014 | |
That's awesome !
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 54937 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
Skan
♀ 35812
Member # 35812 | | Posted: 10:21 PM, January 6th (Monday), 2014 | |
I'm so happy for the two of you.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 9236 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California |
RegretfulHusband
♂ 41873
Member # 41873 | | Posted: 10:29 PM, January 6th (Monday), 2014 | |
Thanks for sharing this sinnomore.
It gives me hope for myself.
Me: FWH, 36
Her: BS, 35
Married: 9 years
Together: 10+ years
Kids: 2 Boys, 6 & 7
"The truth shall set you free, but first it will make you miserable."
Posts: 237 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: United States |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 10:29 PM, January 6th (Monday), 2014 | |
So pleased for you both.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40032 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
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