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Asked BH a Q

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 sinnomore (original poster new member #36800) posted at 3:34 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014

This am I asked bh a question which was this:

Do you consider us still in the process of reconciling or do you consider us reconciled?

He said reconciled! He also said maybe it was still in process, but felt that it was actually reconciled even though he still has "moments".

I thanked him and realized I had tears of joy in my eyes. I know we are still working on us, and am grateful for his willingness to work it out with me.

Happy New Year!

Me - WW-40's
Him - BS-40's
Married 20 years, together 24

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Brandon808 ( member #35619) posted at 3:36 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014

Thanks for sharing this positive news.

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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 3:41 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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helplessme ( member #41598) posted at 5:17 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014

sinnomore,

Happy for you!

How long has it been for you from DDay?

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 sinnomore (original poster new member #36800) posted at 6:06 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014

Helplessme,

Thank you:)

Dday was just about 3.5 years ago. It's been a long road, and we both know there may be some challenges ahead however; we are still here together with our family intact.

Me - WW-40's
Him - BS-40's
Married 20 years, together 24

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helplessme ( member #41598) posted at 6:19 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014

That is a great encouragement sinnomore! Gives hope to all of us here

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Prayingforhope ( member #41801) posted at 10:13 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014

Big time hope booster. Thanks for sharing...

Also continues to reinforce my need for patience...this is not about days or months, it's about months and years. (I have to remind myself daily of this, since I'm a newbie to destroying my family and wife).

WH 41
BS 40
D-Day Oct 28th, 2013
Together 18 years
Three amazing boys 12, 9 & 6
Praying for hope daily

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:14 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014

That's awesome !

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:21 AM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014

I'm so happy for the two of you.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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RegretfulHusband ( member #41873) posted at 4:29 AM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014

Thanks for sharing this sinnomore.

It gives me hope for myself.

Me: FWH, 42
Her: BS, 41
Married: 15 years
Together: 20 years
Kids: 2 Boys, 12 & 13

"The truth shall set you free, but first it will make you miserable."

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:29 AM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014

So pleased for you both.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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