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plainpain posted 1/6/2014 02:38 AM

Discovered via fb sleuthing that the baby was born. This seems to have overwhelmed the infidelity pain to the point of negligible most days. I don't think about them f**king... I think about her holding his baby and having something of him that by rights should be mine. I can't believe this is my life. This is forever. I wish that just once in my life I had wanted to have an affair, or even had an affair, just so I could maybe understand how this could happen. I do not understand. I just do not understand.

sinsof thefather posted 1/6/2014 03:00 AM

I can offer no advice plainpain all I can give you is a heartfelt hug. ((((plainpain)))

SisterMilkshake posted 1/6/2014 03:04 AM

(((plainpain)))

Ostrich80 posted 1/6/2014 03:42 AM

Oh Plainpain...I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this mess. I can only try to imagine what you must be feeling. So unfair.

NoAnswers37 posted 1/6/2014 05:00 AM

(((plainpain)))

jo2love posted 1/6/2014 08:46 AM

(((plainpain)))

brokendancer7 posted 1/6/2014 09:46 AM

There just are no words to express how sorry I am that you have been handed this situation to deal with.

(((plainpain)))

BMC0415 posted 1/6/2014 09:49 AM

((plainpain)), I do understand the pain of the OC and it is a constant reminder of the betrayal everyday. It does get better with time, but rules and boundaries must be set. I suggest that you go to the I can Relate forum and connect with other members in the OC Thread. You will get additional support and understanding in this situation.

Much hugs to you.

TrustGone posted 1/6/2014 09:50 AM

Just try and remember that along with a baby she got a cheater that will probably do the same thing to her. (((HUGS)))

Lovedyoumore posted 1/6/2014 09:52 AM

I am sick to hear this. I am furious for you and your children. I will be thinking of you. I hope you can find some peace.

tushnurse posted 1/6/2014 11:48 AM

((((PP))))

I don't remember, has this child been proven to be his? I mean by DNA testing? Without that, do NOT accept that this baby is his.

Stay strong, focus on you.

((((and strength)))

StillLivin posted 1/6/2014 11:59 AM

(((plainpain)))
I can't even think of what to say that can give any comfort, but I hope with time, it hurts less and less.

nowiknow23 posted 1/6/2014 12:10 PM

((((plainpain))))

... so I could maybe understand how this could happen. I do not understand. I just do not understand.
It's unfathomable, honey. There's no sense to be made of some things.

Jrazz posted 1/6/2014 12:14 PM

(((plainpain)))

You're a better person for not being able to understand how to hurt someone so much.

Whalers11 posted 1/6/2014 12:19 PM

((plainpain))

Girlietoo posted 1/6/2014 12:26 PM

I wish I had something, anything, to say that would make you feel better. The AP in your case is very similar to mine and I just can't imagine myself surviving something like this. But you, you have survived and are surviving and you will keep on surviving. I really am so, so sorry. My heart literally aches for you.

painpaingoaway posted 1/6/2014 12:57 PM


You're a better person for not being able to understand how to hurt someone so much.
this^^^^^ times a thousand.

prowoman posted 1/6/2014 12:59 PM

(((plainpain)))

slide095 posted 1/6/2014 13:03 PM

How terrible.
Just awful, I can't imagine what you're going through.
Stay strong, rally your support system around you.

Kajem posted 1/6/2014 14:56 PM

(((((((((Plainpain)))))))

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