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User Topic: Hey look what I found......nik don't come in!
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


But look how tiny they actually are!!

Totally manageable!!!


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No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another ticket to spidertown... sigh.


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

JRazz the warning for NIK auto applies to you too!!

[This message edited by Unagie at 4:55 PM, January 7th (Tuesday)]


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No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can't win on this, unagie.

If you say 'spider warning', the usual suspects (lovable though they may be) will complain, and if you warn all the spider-phobes individually, the server will bog down dealing with all those characters.

That's an amazing creature. Thanks for sharing.

(signed) sisoon, who loves many shades of blue


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DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's really cool!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Sissoon you're right lol.

Jrc isn't he awesome!?


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


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Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He has too many eyes! And they are all looking at me.

Cool headdress, though.


Me: BS, 40's.

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is awesome...

So flashy


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Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Peacock spiders! Love


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 1:11 AM, January 8th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Apparently they have a mating dance It's so cute! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d_yYC5r8xMI


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:04 AM, January 8th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Someone from the staff has to investigate so we can send a report to the rest of the poor souls...


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

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SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 4:47 AM, January 8th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ADORABLE!!!!!


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 5:05 AM, January 8th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Broevil I was wondering where you were!

I always founf this mating dance hilarious and interesting. They magnified the sounds made.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=A6Pu-4qzMkk


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 8:23 AM, January 8th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's so small that even I might not be afraid of it.

Who am I kidding? I might have to burn down the house.


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, January 8th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who am I kidding? I might have to burn down the house.


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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, January 8th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Their friends want to play ...


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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, January 9th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok, THAT ^^^^ is burn down the house/land/forest/earth worthy.

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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, January 9th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bet that lil guy looks awesome under black light :)


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, January 9th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't like spiders, but those are actually adorable, Unagie. They remind me of Native Americans in their ceremonial dress.

But, then, TR, you had to go and ICK it up. *sigh*


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"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 12:45 PM, January 9th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I defeated a bunch of spiders in my basement this morning with my flaming sword of arachnophobia. It was awesome.


I have a competition in me.

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