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msmaggiemags posted 1/7/2014 20:31 PM

I went to IC yesterday and she suggested that I have WH come I for one session so I can give him my "ultimatum" list. He agreed to go.
Question..there is a person on his Facebook page that I know he shared I appropriate photos with like ones of her with a dildo and he tits etc. And a comment that went something g like "I can't wait to see what you have me do me next"...barf! Anyway he changes his pic today and she commented on it. What do I say. Who do I say it to? I want to comment no Homewreckers allowed. Any suggestions?

pointofnoreturn posted 1/7/2014 20:37 PM

It all depends on what you'd be comfortable with. The easiest solution is having him delete his FB, but that may cause the most kicking and screaming.

At the very least, this person needs to be blocked. Immediately. And you should have access to the account to make sure he doesn't talk I this person or any others again.

h0peless posted 1/7/2014 20:39 PM

Given what he's done up to now, what's the point? He seems to have repeatedly shown you who he is over almost a decade. Why not just serve him the papers?

fourever posted 1/7/2014 20:50 PM

2 x 4 coming…

With his record, why on earth is he allowed to have any social media? I would insist he delete & close his Facebook and any other media he has. Hell, his three strikes would have been over two strikes ago, but that's me.

You've been doing this a while, and he seems to have a "block" as to what boundaries are. So, at this point, don't you think it's time to decide to file or resign yourself to living with his disrespect for the rest of your married life.

You have choices, you have to make them. Give some thought to what your children are learning is acceptable, because they will be following in these footsteps.

msmaggiemags posted 1/7/2014 21:43 PM

Ouch..that hurt you guys! Sad but true I guess!