Dang....sorry to read this post.
I understand what you are feeling. A close couple we know has experienced at least an EA by her husbands doing.
A are cheap.....dime a dozen.....if you read stats on this at all. 1 in 3 M have infidelity affect them.
Caution: opposite sex BS comfort in real life is dangerous. I think quick but shallow emotional bonding would stand a high chance if occurring.
I am really sorry to hear about this. Particularly shocking given the "intimate view" his wife has had of adultery. Reckon it was going on before your DD?
No matter. Not yours to figure out.
It is something..... How people choosing adultery think theirs is unique.....that their sitch is special....the one that is NOT written about over and over.
If course, upon my DD, I thought what I was feeling was unique too.
God help us all.
[This message edited by blakesteele at 9:41 PM, January 9th (Thursday)]