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LostSamurai posted 1/10/2014 19:03 PM

I told my WW I am forgiving her and moving on...meaning I am detaching from her and I am not going to waste the energy spying on her. The last thing I am going to do is make another request for texts from our phone company, check to see if there are any numbers appearing multiple times that shouldn't be and just going on from there.

If she wanted to be back in this marriage, she would be doing it...not me. I am checking out.

Brandon808 posted 1/10/2014 20:04 PM

Agree with everything except the request for the records. If you're moving forward with truly detaching then don't ask for then unless you require them for legal reasons

suckstobeme posted 1/10/2014 20:07 PM

I'm sorry that she's not fighting to save your marriage, but I'm glad you are now fighting to save yourself. There sometimes comes a point when there is no choice but to throw up the white flag and move forward.

DazedWI posted 1/10/2014 20:15 PM

Cheers to you Samurai, I will pour you a scotch tonight so you can join me. Definitely a moment when you see the picture in front of you.

RegretfulHusband posted 1/10/2014 20:32 PM

Very sorry to hear, LostSamurai.

Thinking good thoughts for you.

4everfaithful83 posted 1/10/2014 22:07 PM

Glad you're standing up for yourself!

wishing you some piece tonight...

phoenixrise posted 1/10/2014 22:33 PM

I think thats big of you...me too Im getting to the point where it is just getting too exhausting and need peace...its a great step and hope it elevates you

PRNDL posted 1/11/2014 00:23 AM

I will never forgive my wife. Ever. For what she did and how she went about it. Im 9 months from d-day, separated, and headed for divorce.

She destroyed our future. She destroyed the last 14 years together. She destroyed my son's family.

I will carry this to my grave. Its horrible.

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