Many times in the last month or so WS has expressed that he is not a bad person and not a monster for causing all of this. I have never called him these things but I obviously have I pointed out several times the horrible things he's done in our marriage. Is this the guilt talking to him??
Also, WS claims that his IC told him he's not to blame for the affair and the stress it's caused. Now I'll take partial blame for some of the problems in our marriage but how is he not to blame for the affair? Seriously? If he's not to blame than who is? I'm so frustrated right now.