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User Topic: Glimpse of Endearment
♀ 41053
Member # 41053
Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, January 10th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night I had gone to be very early because I have been ill for a couple of days. My WH works the night shift. When he came to bed, he reached over to me and pulled the covers over my shoulders. He has never done anything like that for me. I found it to be very sweet and encouraging.
This morning, I emailed my brother and SIL what he had done. My brother's response was, "He was probably trying to smother you and had second thoughts that he couldn't get away with it." Aaargh! So much for the warm fuzzys

Me (BS) 59
Him (WH) 58
DD July 10, 2013
My Motto: "I'm fairly certain that nothing is certain anymore"

Posts: 81 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Middle of USA
♂ 41873
Member # 41873
Content  Posted: 9:36 PM, January 10th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I try and do those little things more often. Especially those that I may have overlooked for my wife.

It sounds like maybe your H is coming to a good place.

It gives me hope.


PS - Hope you're feeling better.

Me: FWH, 36
Her: BS, 35
Married: 9 years
Together: 10+ years
Kids: 2 Boys, 6 & 7

"The truth shall set you free, but first it will make you miserable."

Posts: 237 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: United States
♀ 41745
Member # 41745
Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, January 10th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love that...I think he has learned to take care of and appreciate what he almost lost. Mine too has done little things that make all the difference. ..things he's never done before like ask me if I want a cup of coffee in the morning...I hope its permanent and not temporary because it feels so good when they do it...happy for you

"The grass is greener on the other side because of all the shit that is used to fertilize it"
Him: WH after 8 yrs to think he held my hand during labor twice
Me: thought I was a cool loving wife
D Day: 7 mos ago RIP soul

Posts: 213 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Dante's Inferno
♀ 33867
Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We all need a brother like yours who can make us smile!

Funny brother.
Sweet WH.

I would call that a good day! Feel better.

ME: 57 BS
HIM: 64 WH
Married: 32 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 6 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.

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